Ugh, absurd argument with my girlfriend.

[flxnimprtmscl]

Originally posted by: eakers
the point is that if he wanted to spend time with her he would have waited until after she went to work. by not waiting it showed he didn't want to spend time with her.

i see both sides and i realise men just dont think about stuff like this. he got in his head he was going to go at noon and didn't even stop to consider other options, so he went.

Makes sense. When someone doesn't keep their word to do something at a certain time it's your fault for not catering to the person who didn't keep their word. This is the type of stuff that will make your head explode if you do anything other than laugh at it.

 

[olds]

Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Dr. Laura, is that you?

 

[trmiv]

Originally posted by: eakers
the point is that if he wanted to spend time with her he would have waited until after she went to work. by not waiting it showed he didn't want to spend time with her.

i see both sides and i realise men just dont think about stuff like this. he got in his head he was going to go at noon and didn't even stop to consider other options, so he went.

Whoa, it's like my girlfriend has an account on AT. Honey, is that you?

Her and I agreed to go the night before, it's not like I sprung it on her. Plus, the place is only open until 6, and takes 30 minutes to get to. Plus, its not like she wanted me to be in bed with her, lay with her, whatever, she just wanted me to wait around until she decided to get up. That could have been like 2:00pm, by then, half the day is gone. I just got home, at 7pm, from all the stuff I had to do (I did stop at home to see her before she left for work, which resulted in this argument), no way could I have gotten everything done if I would have waited until she got up, and left for work.

You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Brilliant first post.

 

[reprobate]

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Dr. Laura, is that you?

No I'm not you putz, you can reach her at 1-800-DR-LAURA. Since you are obviously looking for counseling to assuage your troubled mind, why don't post your sexual dysfunction problem here first for all of us to take a shot at?

 

[trmiv]

Originally posted by: reprobate

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Dr. Laura, is that you?

No I'm not you putz, you can reach her at 1-800-DR-LAURA. Since you are obviously looking for counseling to assuage your troubled mind, why don't post your sexual dysfunction problem here first for all of us to take a shot at?

Hmmm, I can't decide if you are a former member that was banned or a regular posting under a different name.

 

[RagingBITCH]

Originally posted by: reprobate

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Dr. Laura, is that you?

No I'm not you putz, you can reach her at 1-800-DR-LAURA. Since you are obviously looking for counseling to assuage your troubled mind, why don't post your sexual dysfunction problem here first for all of us to take a shot at?

Tool

 

[olds]

Originally posted by: reprobate

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Dr. Laura, is that you?

No I'm not you putz, you can reach her at 1-800-DR-LAURA. Since you are obviously looking for counseling to assuage your troubled mind, why don't post your sexual dysfunction problem here first for all of us to take a shot at?

Too many to mention.

 

[MAME]

I think it's safe to say that the only solution is to become gay. I've never heard relationship problems from the gays around here so it must be the only viable solution.

Good luck finding a mate. I guess we could go out on a date if you want. LMK

 

[eakers]

you never said in your original post that you decided on the time the night before...

 

[DorkBoy]

if she sleeps till noon you need to dump her, she'll be e bum later in life.
who sleeps that late, what a los*r.

 

[trmiv]

Originally posted by: eakers
you never said in your original post that you decided on the time the night before...

What difference does that make? We agreed we were going, leaving at noon to go somewhere is not unreasonable. It's not too hard to use a little logic to figure out what time to leave.

Fish store opens at 11:00am, she works at 4:30pm. Fish store takes 30 minutes to get to. So, that means 1 hour travel time, there and back. So to go to the place, be able to look around for what we need, not have to rush back, and have time to eat lunch, leaving at around 12pm is a great time which allows us time to do the above, as well as giving her time to sleep in a bit. Apparently I was wrong.

It's not like I woke her up early. I've learned to deal with her liking to sleep late, but I gave her pleny of time to sleep. But, eventually she's going to have to get used to getting up early, she'll be a High School English teacher in about 5-6 months.

 

[shimsham]

Originally posted by: DorkBoy
if she sleeps till noon you need to dump her, she'll be e bum later in life.
who sleeps that late, what a los*r.

i slept till noon today. i do at least one of my three days off a week. im not a loser by any means.

 

[ed21x]

Originally posted by: reprobate

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Dr. Laura, is that you?

No I'm not you putz, you can reach her at 1-800-DR-LAURA. Since you are obviously looking for counseling to assuage your troubled mind, why don't post your sexual dysfunction problem here first for all of us to take a shot at?

You've got a lot to learn, kid. As a matter of fact, leave and come back when you turn 16.

 

[dfi]

You should get mad at her for not wanting to spend time with you. You made two attempts to spend time with her, gave her advance notice, and she blew you off. Tell her that "Action speak louder than words, bizatch!" Calling her a bizatch is imperative for her understanding of the situation.

dfi

 

You've got a lot to learn, kid. As a matter of fact, leave and come back when you turn 16.

E THUG FIGHT E THUG FIGHT!!!!!

 

[AlienCraft]

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?

Dr. Laura, is that you?

LOL, Actually I was going to suggest the OP's GF read Dr. Laura's new book,
The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands..... Couldn't hurt.....

 

[ultimatebob]

Originally posted by: shimsham

Originally posted by: DorkBoy
if she sleeps till noon you need to dump her, she'll be e bum later in life.
who sleeps that late, what a los*r.

i slept till noon today. i do at least one of my three days off a week. im not a loser by any means.

Yeah, I sleep in late on weekends to make up for the lack of sleep that I get during the week. No one has accused me of being a bum lately, so I guess that it's working OK.

Seriously, though, would it have killed trmiv to hop into bed and snuggle with his girlfriend for a few minutes when he tried to wake her up? Women like that kind of stuff, and it probably would have put her into a better mood.

 

[trmiv]

Originally posted by: ultimatebob

Originally posted by: shimsham

Originally posted by: DorkBoy
if she sleeps till noon you need to dump her, she'll be e bum later in life.
who sleeps that late, what a los*r.

i slept till noon today. i do at least one of my three days off a week. im not a loser by any means.

Yeah, I sleep in late on weekends to make up for the lack of sleep that I get during the week. No one has accused me of being a bum lately, so I guess that it's working OK.

Seriously, though, would it have killed trmiv to hop into bed and snuggle with his girlfriend for a few minutes when he tried to wake her up? Women like that kind of stuff, and it probably would have put her into a better mood.

Tried it, didn't work, never does. Waking her is like trying to wake the dead.

 

[ajpa123]

trmiv,
You sound like a really considerate and good-natured person. If this was a freak-occurance, I would let it go.. if this is a pattern, i would soooo be out of that relationship.
Why be with a girl who does not appreciate you.. Actually she is taking advantage of you and being a total b!tch.. sucks, man. Life is too short for such bullsh!t.

LOL.. if that was my place, all of her belongings would be in a pile on the front door along with a taxi that i would call for her.. enough said !

 

[Slacker]

Fsck her.............No, seriously FSCK HER! All will be forgiven

 

[Howard]

Originally posted by: Slacker
Fsck her.............No, seriously FSCK HER! All will be forgiven

<guy from The Girl Next Door>
Fvck her for me! For meeeee!
</guy>

 

[shimsham]

Originally posted by: Slacker
Fsck her.............No, seriously FSCK HER! All will be forgiven

that could be the root of the problem

 

[mugs]

Originally posted by: eakers
the point is that if he wanted to spend time with her he would have waited until after she went to work. by not waiting it showed he didn't want to spend time with her.

i see both sides and i realise men just dont think about stuff like this. he got in his head he was going to go at noon and didn't even stop to consider other options, so he went.

She sounds entirely too clingy. Why does he have to spend time with her every day?

 

[miniMUNCH]

Originally posted by: Mwilding
If spending time with you is important to her and your plans to go to the fish store are known, she shoiuld have gotten up earlier. This is just her uniquely female way of trying to establish dominance over you.

Yup...blatant female manipulation at its finest. My wife has never done anything remotely similar to that...she says she gets the urge to do it sometimes but thinks stuff like that is 'highly uncool' and completely unfair to me, so she doesn't give the time of day.

I've been married almost five year and my wife and I have never had a fight or anything (no yelling, name calling, spans of time without sex...you people in relationships know the symptoms) -- we disagree on small stuff but we agree that it is okay to disagree and eventually one of us will come around.

Okay...I'm done congratulating myself now.

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: eakers
the point is that if he wanted to spend time with her he would have waited until after she went to work. by not waiting it showed he didn't want to spend time with her.

i see both sides and i realise men just dont think about stuff like this. he got in his head he was going to go at noon and didn't even stop to consider other options, so he went.

Information from Man Camp:

50% of humanity is not wired for mind reading. Lay off that $hit and use the brain. He asked her twice if she wanted to come (just as decided the day before). He did want to spend time with her. He made plans with her and asked her to join him. Anyone who reads more into that is not wired right.
(And I don't mean you eakers )