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Atreus21

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Well then we can’t say. If a biologically male person says they identify as a female in a gender sense then obviously they aren’t delusional. Only an idiot would think that. Gender is purely a social construct after all, we can make it whatever we want.

But if he meant it in the biological sense, he would be delusional, correct?
 

WelshBloke

Lifer
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No. My contention is that people men who truly think they are women, or vice versa, are deluded.

What you think is up to you. Why you think it matters to anyone else is an interesting question though. You seem peculiarly hung up on this issue for someone who (I'm assuming) has little contact with transgender people. I work with quite a few of them and they are just a bunch of people with varied personalities and experiences. You seem to think that they are one homogeneous group that just exists to piss you off.
Do you think all religious people are deluded? (I know, thsts a really low hanging fruit question)
 
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fskimospy

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What you think is up to you. Why you think it matters to anyone else is an interesting question though. You seem peculiarly hung up on this issue for someone who (I'm assuming) has little contact with transgender people. I work with quite a few of them and they are just a bunch of people with varied personalities and experiences. You seem to think that they are one homogeneous group that just exists to piss you off.
Do you think all religious people are deluded? (I know, thsts a really low hanging fruit question)
He said he has literally never met one, haha.
 

fskimospy

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I didn't say that. I said I didn't know any. If you're going to claim what I literally said, please say what I literally said. Of course I've met them before.
You are correct, you are merely making statements about what a group thinks when you don’t know a single one, not a group you have never met.
 

Jaskalas

Lifer
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It would be easier if we simply acknowledged a third or even spectrum of genders instead of flat earthing biology.

It would be easier if we simply acknowledged that sex is binary, and gender = sex. We do not need to complicate it by making up a conflict between fantastical societal constructs. Why is it incumbent upon me to accept something that is completely abstract and departed from a simple reality? Without society there would be no "gender" as others want to define it. We would simply be born as our sex and not give it another thought.

This is a social issue via a made up social construct. What makes anyone's version of it definitive and better than anyone else's? What makes sex = gender a position that should be abandoned? Maybe this is how I am broken, and my feelings betray walking better path. But is it wrong to want people taught to accept themselves for who they are, body included? Is kindling the idea of gender a better alternative and am I simply blind to it?
 

fskimospy

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It would be easier if we simply acknowledged that sex is binary, and gender = sex. We do not need to complicate it by making up a conflict between fantastical societal constructs. Why is it incumbent upon me to accept something that is completely abstract and departed from a simple reality? Without society there would be no "gender" as others want to define it. We would simply be born as our sex and not give it another thought.

This is a social issue via a made up social construct. What makes anyone's version of it definitive and better than anyone else's? What makes sex = gender a position that should be abandoned? Maybe this is how I am broken, and my feelings betray walking better path. But is it wrong to want people taught to accept themselves for who they are, body included? Is kindling the idea of gender a better alternative and am I simply blind to it?
Sex doesn’t equal gender because they are literally two different things. It’s like asking why hamburgers aren’t hot dogs.

We can’t get rid of gender even if we wanted to because it’s not a consciously created construct. More importantly what it means to be male or female is different in every culture so if we said sex and gender were the same thing that means we would have to deny reality.
 

fskimospy

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What would make things even tougher is that numerous cultures have three or more genders so if we said sex was gender we would have to find some way to magically abolish them from existence.
 

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We don't know. All we know is that he said he is, in fact, a woman.

Use of the words male, female, man, and woman may by common definitions refer to sex, gender, or both.

Why would someone seek sex reassignment surgery? Why would someone seek to cover their body in tattoos? Or take steroids to bulk their muscles when they weren't competing in bodybuilding or any sport where the steroids would provide a competitive advantage? Why would someone choose to be a mountain climber and not routinely wear a harness? Or skydive even with precautions?

You seek to define a desire to be of a different sex (which is not the definition of transgender, although is the wish of many transgender people) as delusion instead of a wish you do not understand or agree with. Why? If someone agreed that this represented a delusion, what would be the implications of such a view?
 

WelshBloke

Lifer
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Why would someone seek sex reassignment surgery? Why would someone seek to cover their body in tattoos? Or take steroids to bulk their muscles when they weren't competing in bodybuilding or any sport where the steroids would provide a competitive advantage? Why would someone choose to be a mountain climber and not routinely wear a harness? Or skydive even with precautions?

Because, apparently, freedom of choice is something to be controlled and only offered to select groups.
 

Vic

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Amazing how hard it is for conservatives to let people live their own lives as they choose to and when it harms no one else that they can't even exercise common courtesy about it.
The real issue though is that for centuries conservatives have been abusing and persecuting these people through govt and the law. And now that's changing, and they desperately fear being done unto as they have done unto and would still do unto if they still could.
 

Moonbeam

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Glad we agree that you cannot find a single solitary person who says the thing you claim they believe. Not even one.

What’s weird is that I’ve known a number of transgender people in my life and I’m pretty sure all of them would be deeply insulted by the ignorance you’re displaying here.
Of course, to feel insulted, they would already have to carry the seeds of doubt that the bias Atreus shows, at least in my opinion, has validity. Where he goes wrong in my opinion is that he holds an unconscious assumption that he can distinguish differences in what people do and what they say. What they do and what they say in his mind, are colored by his belief system, and the unconscious assumption that his belief system will provide him with objective fact. The blindness of all bigots is based on this presupposition that they hold an objective moral system, that the color that lens lends to their view of reality is actual reality but is only the result of the worship of sacred cows that can't be examined for fear that the loss of those cows denies them a basis for any belief in the good. “Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”, said before he said, "Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit".

I think your sacred cows @Atreus21 are only fingers pointing at the Moon. With or without fingers, the Moon is always there.

I love that you believe in the good even though I don't always agree with all your versions of it because you hold to the faith it is there.
 

WelshBloke

Lifer
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The real issue though is that for centuries conservatives have been abusing and persecuting these people through govt and the law. And now that's changing, and they desperately fear being done unto as they have done unto and would still do unto if they still could.

No! They really care about fairness in MMA!
 

ch33zw1z

Lifer
Nov 4, 2004
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Amazing how hard it is for conservatives to let people live their own lives as they choose to and when it harms no one else that they can't even exercise common courtesy about it.
The real issue though is that for centuries conservatives have been abusing and persecuting these people through govt and the law. And now that's changing, and they desperately fear being done unto as they have done unto and would still do unto if they still could.
Yup, religion has had the run of the place for a long time. Losing grip sent them into full nutter panic mode.
 

interchange

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It would be easier if we simply acknowledged that sex is binary, and gender = sex. We do not need to complicate it by making up a conflict between fantastical societal constructs. Why is it incumbent upon me to accept something that is completely abstract and departed from a simple reality? Without society there would be no "gender" as others want to define it. We would simply be born as our sex and not give it another thought.

This is a social issue via a made up social construct. What makes anyone's version of it definitive and better than anyone else's? What makes sex = gender a position that should be abandoned? Maybe this is how I am broken, and my feelings betray walking better path. But is it wrong to want people taught to accept themselves for who they are, body included? Is kindling the idea of gender a better alternative and am I simply blind to it?

It would also be easier if no one was sick or well. There is just alive and dead, and when you are alive you are not dead and that's all that matters until you are dead.

If easier doesn't match what is, then perhaps we should find ways to incorporate complexity. Of course, if you are alive and well, then I could understand your motivation to deny that sick exists. After all, we are all marching toward death. Who's to say who is sick and who is not, anyway?
 

Starbuck1975

Lifer
Jan 6, 2005
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Sex doesn’t equal gender because they are literally two different things. It’s like asking why hamburgers aren’t hot dogs.
But within the context of this conversation, you are taking a hot dog, grinding it up and calling it a hamburger. On the one hand, does it really matter? On the other hand, there is a reason that words have meaning. Meanings can also change.

We can’t get rid of gender even if we wanted to because it’s not a consciously created construct. More importantly what it means to be male or female is different in every culture so if we said sex and gender were the same thing that means we would have to deny reality.
What we can’t get rid of is biology. Gender is a construct, yet most gender norms also reflect certain biological realities...for instance, marketing baby dolls to the maternal instinct of little girls.

I call it flat earthing biology because most liberals criticize religious conservatives for ignoring science, yet from a pure scientific and evolutionary standpoint, sex is a fact based classification system developed by evolution to ensure the survival of the species, where gender is about “the feels”.

If our species were to go extinct, and millions of years from now, an alien species were to study our remains, would gender even factor into how they classify humans?

Gender is simply another way for people to communicate their role in society. Respect shouldn’t require a periodic table of classifications.

And having said all that, I think its ridiculous for girl athletes with the biological advantages of males to compete against biological females, even though I also acknowledge that religious conservatives are exploiting this inequity.
 

fskimospy

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But within the context of this conversation, you are taking a hot dog, grinding it up and calling it a hamburger. On the one hand, does it really matter? On the other hand, there is a reason that words have meaning. Meanings can also change.
Exactly, words have meaning. When conservatives try and pretend that sex and gender are interchangeable they are mangling the meaning of those words. They are free to do that of course but they can’t expect other people to indulge their delusions.

What we can’t get rid of is biology. Gender is a construct, yet most gender norms also reflect certain biological realities...for instance, marketing baby dolls to the maternal instinct of little girls.

I call it flat earthing biology because most liberals criticize religious conservatives for ignoring science, yet from a pure scientific and evolutionary standpoint, sex is a fact based classification system developed by evolution to ensure the survival of the species, where gender is about “the feels”.

If our species were to go extinct, and millions of years from now, an alien species were to study our remains, would gender even factor into how they classify humans?

Gender is simply another way for people to communicate their role in society. Respect shouldn’t require a periodic table of classifications.

And having said all that, I think its ridiculous for girl athletes with the biological advantages of males to compete against biological females, even though I also acknowledge that religious conservatives are exploiting this inequity.
Well I can’t speak for the aliens but we as humans most certainly study the gender roles of ancient civilizations that have come before us.

When you call it ‘flat earthing biology’ you are doing the same thing as Atreus is, conflating sex and gender when they aren’t the same thing. You’re misusing words and then attacking other people for not doing the same.
 

Starbuck1975

Lifer
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Exactly, words have meaning. When conservatives try and pretend that sex and gender are interchangeable they are mangling the meaning of those words. They are free to do that of course but they can’t expect other people to indulge their delusions.


Well I can’t speak for the aliens but we as humans most certainly study the gender roles of ancient civilizations that have come before us.

When you call it ‘flat earthing biology’ you are doing the same thing as Atreus is, conflating sex and gender when they aren’t the same thing. You’re misusing words and then attacking other people for not doing the same.
I am not attacking anyone. This is simply a conversation.

Liberals like to pretend that sex and gender are separate terms, but there is a correlation between them. Take the term “mother”. There is both a biological and gender role interpretation of that term, to include its origin.

How many gender nonbinary prehistoric men have archaeologists uncovered?
 

fskimospy

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I am not attacking anyone. This is simply a conversation.

Liberals like to pretend that sex and gender are separate terms, but there is a correlation between them. Take the term “mother”. There is both a biological and gender role interpretation of that term, to include its origin.

How many gender nonbinary prehistoric men have archaeologists uncovered?
Liberals are not pretending anything, they are simply stating the objective, undeniable truth. You’re creating a straw man here just to argue that liberals are somehow wrong or equally wrong.

As far as cultures with third or fourth genders here you go:
 

Starbuck1975

Lifer
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Liberals are not pretending anything, they are simply stating the objective, undeniable truth. You’re creating a straw man here just to argue that liberals are somehow wrong or equally wrong.

As far as cultures with third or fourth genders here you go:
I notice you keep dodging the points that don’t support your assertions.

I’ve read that wikipedia article a few times. Even those third and fourth gender cultures anchor their definitions to a binary core, and the basis for that binary in human evolution is sex.

Male
Female
Other

OR

Masculine male
Feminine male
Feminine female
Masculine female
 

fskimospy

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I notice you keep dodging the points that don’t support your assertions.

I’ve read that wikipedia article a few times. Even those third and fourth gender cultures anchor their definitions to a binary core, and the basis for that binary in human evolution is sex.

Male
Female
Other

OR

Masculine male
Feminine male
Feminine female
Masculine female
This is irrelevant to the fact that gender is something entirely different than sex and when conservatives pretend not to understand that they can’t expect the rest of us to pretend along with them.

Words have meaning.
 

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I am not attacking anyone. This is simply a conversation.

Liberals like to pretend that sex and gender are separate terms, but there is a correlation between them. Take the term “mother”. There is both a biological and gender role interpretation of that term, to include its origin.

How many gender nonbinary prehistoric men have archaeologists uncovered?

How many creative? How many intelligent? Monogamous? Polyamorous? How many bald? With scars on their skin?

Whether something can be ascertained from the fossil record seems to me quite a poor way to judge its validity as a construct.

But validity is socially defined. Even our words which are intended to mean something explicitly concrete and physical have significant shortcomings when looked at through a fine lens. We make approximations because we have to but because they are also useful. For things which are poorly concrete, language is destined to be inadequate. Even for concrete things which arise little conflict internally for a basic understanding such as, say "cancer", are impossible to precisely define. What makes some changes in a cell grouping cancer and another pre-cancerous? And "cancer" connotes a category of extreme complexity, each individual case being truly unique, but still we subdivide as much as possible because doing so allows us to do way better than random at treating the illness. Even the idea of life and death contain a line that is extremely difficult for which to define a boundary.

So true with biological "sex". There is quite a range of genetic and physiologic presentations including many which are not easily classified in a binary way.

For gender, even the most socially progressive terminology being promoted involves extremely rudimentary categorizations. But they are much more useful than nothing, and there is a point where trying to be more specific makes things horribly impractical.

But I think you see the basic principles at play. I believe I understand what you are arguing should be. But I don't understand why you believe that. Finding fault in an alternative does not do it for me. There is, by definition, no language that may be used without serious fault here. Definitely a rigid classification based on biology leads to far fewer miscategorizations, yet it also means a large part of experience goes entirely uncategorized. I don't understand why we should do that to such a degree.
 
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