[UPDATE] (I spoke to her)..YAGT: screwed up...

[Nitemare]

Was this before or after she told you that she did not want to see your Captain Winky and to stop hiding in her closet?

 

[hdeck]

well, you made it a lot further than most people on this board ever will, and i'll drink to that!:beer:

 

[SubZeroX]

ok, i spoke to her finally on AIM. It was really just regular chatting and nothing of me liking her came up.

Oh well, I'm just glad she is talking to me again. But she did seem kinda cold and aloof...

oh well...off to ponder my misery some more...sob

 

[NutBucket]

It'll be wierd for a while. Hopefully things will take a turn for the better

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: SubZeroX
I told a really good friend I like her and now it seems like she won't talk to me for a loooong time...sob:brokenheart:

oh well, i have held it in for a looong time, and told her coz I just couldn't stand it anymore.

life sucks.

There is no guarranty that because you like someone they will like you. Time will take care of the hurt. When you are ready, look around and you will see that there are a lot of women around. If you talk to enough of them, you will find someone who you like and who likes you.

 

[Gooberlx2]

Originally posted by: chin311
I just give you props for telling her, same sorta thing happened to me about 8 months ago, became really good/close/best friends with this girl, then by the time I told her how I felt, she was already sorta involved with someone else, she had feelings too, but wouldnt follow up on them because she was already involved :\, "someone else" was one of my best guy friends too, needless to say I dont talk to him anymore.

Damn dude, that's just cold. Any person should know that the girl your friend is uber-crazy about is off-limits.

 

[AUMM]

Originally posted by: SubZeroX

Originally posted by: pekcle
i've had that happen too....from what i've noticed....it's not worth coming out with it...b/c it always goes sour after that....just try and find someone else and convince yourself that you like that personinstead...i think it's better than destroying a relationship

you're right, it probably doesn't work 9/10 times. But imagine how wonderful it would be if it does work out...

I don't regret that I told her how I felt today, but just saddened that I won't be able to hang out with her or talk to her, for a looooong time, perhaps never, from what I know from my own experience (the last time this happened, I didn't see or talk to the girl for like 6 years).

it works out sometimes, got togehter with one of my best friends, best relationship ive ever had

 

[ParagonX]

When you become good friends with a girl, there is almost never a chance of anything more developing. (Not always the case, but 99% of the time). If a girl likes you, they let you know right away basicly and don't let themselfs get in the "friend zone" with you.

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: SubZeroX
ok, i spoke to her finally on AIM. It was really just regular chatting and nothing of me liking her came up.

Oh well, I'm just glad she is talking to me again. But she did seem kinda cold and aloof...

oh well...off to ponder my misery some more...sob

Don't take it personally or see her rejection as a reflection of your worth. Some women will like you and some women will not. The thing to do is to spend time with women who like you. She has made it clear that she is not interested in a relationship with you. If you pursue her you will be a jerk. Look elsewhere. There are a lot of women out there who want a relationship.

 

[Turkish]

that sucks man... happens to a majority of guys... including me... never turned out positive on my side, but letting the pain get off your chest is a big thing... sorry to tell you this, but from my experiences most ladies will never become the same great friend after somethign like this... IMHO, this is due to the fact that you have some feelings for her and she doesn't, she will take advantage of this. and when i say this, i dont mean only ladies, i am sure most guys will do if their best lady friend reveals that she likes him...

hopefuly you can get over this. and yes, life sucks.

 

[SubZeroX]

that 1% must be best of all relationships...

 

[Turkish]

Originally posted by: Dr Smooth

Originally posted by: SubZeroX
ok, i spoke to her finally on AIM. It was really just regular chatting and nothing of me liking her came up.

Oh well, I'm just glad she is talking to me again. But she did seem kinda cold and aloof...

oh well...off to ponder my misery some more...sob

Don't take it personally or see her rejection as a reflection of your worth. Some women will like you and some women will not. The thing to do is to spend time with women who like you. She has made it clear that she is not interested in a relationship with you. If you purse her you will be a jerk. Look elsewhere. There are a lot of women out there who want a relationship.

read that post twice. he is telling the truth. dont see her rejection as a reflection of your worth... we are all different and there are different women that will like you.

goodluck.

 

[SubZeroX]

Originally posted by: Dr Smooth

Originally posted by: SubZeroX
ok, i spoke to her finally on AIM. It was really just regular chatting and nothing of me liking her came up.

Oh well, I'm just glad she is talking to me again. But she did seem kinda cold and aloof...

oh well...off to ponder my misery some more...sob

Don't take it personally or see her rejection as a reflection of your worth. Some women will like you and some women will not. The thing to do is to spend time with women who like you. She has made it clear that she is not interested in a relationship with you. If you purse her you will be a jerk. Look elsewhere. There are a lot of women out there who want a relationship.

I will not pursue her. I'll just let things be...

 

[Shelly21]

It is good that you got this out of the way. You can now move on to someone else. How old are you by the way?

 

[SubZeroX]

shelly, I am 26

yep, because of this I've basically given up on her...