y2k,
Sadly, with its current problems, the Abit BD7 is junk. Abit will probably fix these issues with a bios update at some point, but for now I would avoid the board and its rebooting + other issues.
The consensus seems to go with the Asus P4B266 (get the standard version, not the -C version, if you want to use the USB ports with good overclocks) or the P4S333. For RDRAM, the P4T-E seems to be the best bet, if you can make sure that the board you are getting uses the ICS chips.