update: I'm stable @ 2.24 (140 FSB, 1.5v), anything higher and I get random reboots and lockups. The reboots and lockups appear not to be heat related, I'm sure it's a limitation of the MB or RAM (Abit BD7,Crucial 2100). I was considering getting the ASUS but @ 2.2GHz, I'm satisfied. My max temps after a few intense games of quake 3 are in the 39-41 C range so I think my temp situation is under control (I do have a sunflower on the way though).
In conclusion: Other than my not so brilliant choice of motherboards, I am happy as a clam with this setup. My old setup was a Dual P3 650 which I've put to use as a burner box/fileserver and I hope to do dual XEONS later this year (dual CPU's flat out rock). I'm glad I waited for Intel to step back up to the plate as I was avoiding AMD/VIA like the plague (not an AMD flame, I simply prefer Intel).