I don't have unlimited data, but work will pay if I go over, so I use my iPhone liberally. I have no problem going over if I want, and I don't care if I go over. My issue isn't so much that I can't do it, it's the fact that Verizon 4G LTE downgrades to 3G quite frequently making it useless. I'd also like to note that I did give up AT&T unlimited data too at one point. Even if I were on their unlimited data plan I would be ok with the caps. They make sense. Now if 10 years later we're still at 3gb caps I'd be outraged, but for now the caps make sense given that you can't guarantee data speeds at every location at every point in time.
The SF Bay Area is decent for Verizon, but my experiences in NYC last year and in Seattle were horrendous. I see other people complaining about Seattle here.
I feel like the issue you have is that you just want to flex your unlimited bandwidth muscle. The only reason I'm against it is because networks are overly crowded now. That's like saying just build more highways and eliminate bottlenecks to fight traffic congestion. You deal with a multipronged approach. You build up public transportation infrastructure like subway systems and bus rapid transit, and possibly light rail, but at the same time you work at eliminating bottlenecks when you can. However, asking the I-405 to get expanded from 6 lanes both ways to 10 lanes both ways isn't really cost effective nor realistic.
I don't think capping everyone to 2gb alone will solve congestion issues, but having data caps in addition to expanding infrastructure makes sense. If everyone's tethering their home networks to their Verizon LTE phones and streaming Netflix, then you can bet even a 20+20 MHz LTE network on AWS with additional 10+10 MHz in the 700 MHz band won't save Verizon.
Just because your contract did state unlimited data back in the day doesn't mean you have a right to screw other users over by overloading the network. If this world was all about what you feel like you have the right to do, then we'd be living in a pretty chaotic every man for himself battlefield.
Then maybe the solution is to crack down on the ISPs like Comcast who promised to bring internet to low income families. 3 years later they've enrolled less than 10% of what they promised.
Wasn't there a promise to bring broadband to every home to the US also? People who exceed the data caps a bit because they stream Pandora aren't the issue. The people who gobble up 8mbps constantly with Netflix are the ones that really slow down the network for everyone.