- Oct 14, 2005
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Go back about 3 years --- my friend is poor. Just got married, working long nights in an ER, and trying to start his own business, which is very successful, but needs a website and he doesn't have enough money for one.
So I design a site for him, complete with shopping cart, etc. I'll admit - I stall a lot. "I'll try to do it this week" came out of my mouth a lot until a few months down the line when I finally got it done (mind you for free, I'm also hosting it for free).
Then, he began adding a bunch of things on top of it. 3 months ago, he requested a few things to be changed, which I haven't had the time to do yet.
I get an email from him a few days ago:
Now, this "stuff done" that he wants is not only the stuff from 3 months ago, but also stuff he added as soon as a week ago.
I agree it's my fault for keeping it dragging this long, but at the same time, I know he doesn't have enough money to pay someone to do this, and I feel bad when I can't get it done. I know once this website is done it'll really help his business, but now he wants things like the ability to upload and resize pictures, etc. - stuff I would charge $1000 to do. I already would have charged $2000+ for the site I built for him. And it's just getting frustrating.
So at one point do I say enough is enough? On one side of the fence, I feel bad that he has had health problems lately, is really stressed with the economy (they just had two kids plus trying to pay down their house and he just started a new full time job), but at the same time I need to watch my stress levels and my health -- I can't keep stressing out helping everyone and their mother for free when I have bills to pay.
Thoughts? Should I do this work for him and say no more? Or should I say there's no way I can get it done by Saturday, and I'm sorry, and recommend a few people who I know work for cheap and COULD do it by Saturday?
Thanks.
So I design a site for him, complete with shopping cart, etc. I'll admit - I stall a lot. "I'll try to do it this week" came out of my mouth a lot until a few months down the line when I finally got it done (mind you for free, I'm also hosting it for free).
Then, he began adding a bunch of things on top of it. 3 months ago, he requested a few things to be changed, which I haven't had the time to do yet.
I get an email from him a few days ago:
Sorry to hear that man. Hope you feel better. Saturday is my deadline. I understand if it's not done by then because you're sick, but I cannot wait longer than that. Let's just put it to rest if it's not done by then. Thanks.
Now, this "stuff done" that he wants is not only the stuff from 3 months ago, but also stuff he added as soon as a week ago.
I agree it's my fault for keeping it dragging this long, but at the same time, I know he doesn't have enough money to pay someone to do this, and I feel bad when I can't get it done. I know once this website is done it'll really help his business, but now he wants things like the ability to upload and resize pictures, etc. - stuff I would charge $1000 to do. I already would have charged $2000+ for the site I built for him. And it's just getting frustrating.
So at one point do I say enough is enough? On one side of the fence, I feel bad that he has had health problems lately, is really stressed with the economy (they just had two kids plus trying to pay down their house and he just started a new full time job), but at the same time I need to watch my stress levels and my health -- I can't keep stressing out helping everyone and their mother for free when I have bills to pay.
Thoughts? Should I do this work for him and say no more? Or should I say there's no way I can get it done by Saturday, and I'm sorry, and recommend a few people who I know work for cheap and COULD do it by Saturday?
Thanks.