I'm not interested in figuring out what load out I need, or studying weapons penetration and armor design.
How can you say this ^ and then say this;
I just want to go shoot something where some skill and strategy give me a reasonable possibility of surviving the encounter. The whole thing with driving a tank half way across a huge map to get to the battle field and then get taken out with one shot from a guy I hit 3 times was frustrating.
You wanted strategy, they gave it to you. But you just wanted to point and shoot instead with no strategy?
I can see trading armor for firepower, or vice-versa, but that isn't an option.
It wasn't an option in real life either. The tank was made and field mods were typically the removal or addition of ancillary weapons (machine guns for anti-infantry purposes) or the removal of armor for weight saving.
Improving the main gun firepower of a tank really wasn't something done in the field.
As far as planes go, they are far more intricate in how they perform and strengths and weaknesses of each, especially in realistic mode. Turn fighting is something you only do depending on what you're flying and what your opponent is flying.
Every time I see a P-47 mowing the lawn I die inside and then go after them.
But if it didn't grab you, it didn't grab you. There is also most definitely no Pay2Win in this game. I've unlocked all of the T4 fighters in most nations without an account. The premium planes I've gotten from random holiday events I rarely play.
Tiering balance is a huge issue though. The 1.0 BR spread needs to go or the BRs need to go back to 15 from the heavily compressed 9. Russian Bias(tm) is also something I pretty heavily believe in based on the gloriously awful BRs their planes receive (read, way to low) and the clubbing that results along with the hilariously boosted non-realistic performance models and non-existent reliability issues that they suffered during the war. Yak-9t, 9k, etc with prop cannons that are laser accurate and never jam vs everyone else's larger cannons that sparkle, jam, and look like shotgun spread after 1 shot.