schmuckley
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I don't know that I've ever heard of people flying multiple states for a birthday party.
For a wedding, sure...but for a birthday party?
Just fire up skype and let them watch you open your kid's presants. It'll be just like they were there.
During the wedding, grab the DJ's mic and announce that you're celebrating your kid's first birthday. Bring out a small cake for your kid and have everyone sing happy birthday. Your attention whore sister in law will shit a fit and can't do anything or she'd look horrible.
Move the birthday party a day. Your kid won't mind.
Move the birthday party a day. Your kid won't mind.
Oh, that's only part of it. She tattled on me to my in laws after that pot incident mentioned in that thread, and ignored me on facebook among other things, we're not friendsm we don't get a long, at all. and my wife loves her, hence my conundrum, I"d otherwise have nada to do with her..
You really should see a professional about your sense of paranoia. And that is not a flippant, typical ATOT insult. If you honestly think a woman planned her wedding to fuck with a kids birthday party you're either now, or soon will be, a danger to yourself and others.
For the next 100 years your SIL will try and usurp your child's birthday as her anniversary. But probably for only a year or so, if her marriage lasts that long.
You know you can move the birthday party without any problems, so just do that. Don't even say anything about the date conflict. They want to hear you acknowledge that you see the conflict and that it bothers you and you have to submit to their plan since wedding > 1st birthday. That's how they win.
If you don't mention it, and they don't see that you are bothered by it, they will be upset because they went to all the trouble to inconvenience you and it failed.