yeesh, a couple things here guys...
1. big and beautiful is a thing, and many dudes dont mind one bit...
2. height, weight, relative to frame, bmi, alone or even combined are not fullproof ways of determining health.
im, unfortunately, an example of this. im well within my bmi and weight range for my height. looking at me, no one assumes that my genetics are cursed with very high cholesterol. so blood work matters very much so.
the biggest help is regular exercise. yet, in our fast paced, rat race lifestyle...i admit im not always the best at keeping up with it.
so lets dispense with generalized assumptions. health status should be determined by a licensed physician, with as much information as possible.
neither of the women ive seen in this thread would present cause for alarm without more information to go on.
WRT OP, we know sugar causes health problems, and our foods are jammed packed with it.