Originally posted by: Davegod75
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: Davegod75
Originally posted by: notfred
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Mind your own business.
It is his business.
No it's not.
it's his damn sister...i think getting in her business if she is doing something irresponsible is both responsible and respectable
She's 19, almost 20. Not 14 almost 15.
All he can do is voice his concern. That's all anybody can do. It's up tp her whether she listens.
almost 20...holy cow...what a mature adult she must be ...the fact is most 19 yrs old are complety immature and are not ready to bring a kid into this world. If this guy just lets his sister do whatever the hell she wants why his just sits there I bet 10 years down the road he'll feel real good about himself when she's a struggling single mom.
...hopefully this won't happen but the statistics don't lie
I completely agree with you, except for the "If this guy just lets his sister do whatever the hell she wants..." part.
Exactly what else is he supposed to do? He can do his homework, and have a heart to heart conversation with her, if she is willing to do that, voicing his concerns and his research. If their relationship is that close, he can even offer to setup appointments and accompany her to wherever she needs to go to get things taken care of.
He cannot, however, send her to her room, and then drag her by the ear to the clinic.
You're all in "little sister" mode. I would be very protective of my little sister(If I had one) too, but she isn't little anymore. Regardless of her actual maturity level, she is an adult, and thus gets to make her own decisions.
Again, He is free to voice his concerns.. every day if he wants to. But it is still up to her whether she listens or not.