senseamp
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- Feb 5, 2006
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I think you're making big assumptions about how alimony actually works. Alimony applies to keep the wife at the same standard of living even after the divorce. If you assume she already has a job, then she would not be able to simply quit it after the divorce and expect her husband to make up that income. If she earned 50% of the household income, she's not going to get alimony. Now if she were a teacher and her husband was a surgeon, yes, she's going to get money. I don't have a problem with that.
Since when are you the one to suggest we need to always go with the free market solution? Traditionally, the economic aspect of marriage was a key component. There are still traditional marriages out there. To the extent one is not in a traditional marriage, one probably shouldn't be too concerned about alimony because the spouses will be making similar incomes. And if you're really not traditional, you don't get married at all or you get a prenup.
And as we move into the future there are going to be a fair amount of stay-at-home dads who will qualify for alimony. I don't have a problem with that.
The incentive is still to contribute less and take more during the marriage, because by contributing more and taking less, you are signing up to do this in perpetuity in case of a divorce. And by contributing less and taking more, you are entitled to take more in perpetuity. Essentially you are being punished for accepting more financial responsibility and rewarded for ducking it. I am writing a prenup, you better believe it, no way in hell I would get married without one, mainly because of alimony provisions, and especially the discretion it leaves to judges. Note that it doesn't mean I am completely against alimony. There should be some support for a transition period so that neither spouse constantly worries about being dumped and left on the street without time to readjust. But it should not be an entitlement to a certain lifestyle for life just because you had it for a few years in marriage.