JEDIYoda
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You have a messed up wife......Not if she is spending all your money and sleeping with the neighbor next door.
You have a messed up wife......Not if she is spending all your money and sleeping with the neighbor next door.
a happy wife, is a happy life!!!
Not if she is spending all your money and sleeping with the neighbor next door.
Check? It's 2016!Hand check to wife, it disappears, bills get paid.
a happy wife, is a happy life!!!
25 years. Joint accounts. 1 Checking, 1 savings, 1 e-trade and our Fidelity 401Ks.
Anything big we talk about. No real definition of big. Been that way through good times and bad.
You assume too much.I assume the submissive woman is fine with it b/c the AnandTech engineer makes so much bank that she puts up with this petty, control shyte.
Wise AnandTech engineers marry other engineers (or similar profession that can support themselves).
I'm always mystified when I hear married couples with separate accounts and they each 'pay into' a joint account to pay bills or some sort. That's not a marriage, it's a business deal.
Joint checking, joint savings. What else is there?
I'm enjoying reading this thread w/ all the "schemes" involved that aren't just joint.
Sometimes...but most don't marry other engineers..
Engineers are nerds.
Nerds don't get laid.
As women become old, they reluctantly submit and finally go for the nerd and his bank.
Nerd marries...but NOW he realizes he is the QB/Homecoming King and has the power to set the rules.
Lady puts up with his money rules since its better than being a broke-ass spinster living in a noisy apt. building.
I see you know it all. :\
Looks like you and me are in the minority in this thread about having joint accounts with the Mrs.
I'm enjoying reading this thread w/ all the "schemes" involved that aren't just joint.
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I assume the separate account thing is male created/enforced. The male is the "power earner" and creates these rules.
I assume the submissive woman is fine with it b/c the AnandTech engineer makes so much bank that she puts up with this petty, control shyte.
......If I was a woman and the dude I was going to marry told me to put my Walmart check in my account and he put his Google check in his account and also have separate CC's, etc, I would tell him to fuck off and to go play in traffic.
Sometimes...but most don't marry other engineers..
Engineers are nerds.
Nerds don't get laid.
As women become old, they reluctantly submit and finally go for the nerd and his bank.
Nerd marries...but NOW he realizes he is the QB/Homecoming King and has the power to set the rules.
Lady puts up with his money rules since its better than being a broke-ass spinster living in a noisy apt. building.
That is the only thing that you and I have in common. Especially your views towards women.
Joint.
My better half is also an ATM. Just minutes ago, we deposited $15K to her brothers account. He needs the money for something I dont even bother to ask this time. Last time, it was for fixing a house -- $10K. There was a time before that You get the idea.
For some reason, my better half keeps on thinking shell see the money back. I count those as gifts against my will.
Sorry I have to vent. I am so f****** mad.
As a rule, we take the Suze Orman approach to feel "insulted" when they emote attitude as to why we won't lend. If they aren't fiscally responsible or have a history of being honorable about paying the money back in hard luck times, they ain't seeing a dime. Go to the bank and get a loan then.