Two friends of mine. And I concur about work.
I thought that family would be on this, but as much as I've depended on them and as much as I consider them to be incredibly important in who I am, at this point in my life I have made a place for myself apart from them and while I will always love and care about them, I don't think they would leave a hole in my life.
I've got a couple of very good friends whom I value greatly and I've gone through ups and downs with them still around me, and I want them to still be in my life as I start to let things come back together.
As for work, I go nuts when I'm not doing anything and get pretty self-destructive.
ZV