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mikeford

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Did porn in the past has no bearing on willing to do you now.

Its like expecting someone that used to drive a cab to give you a free ride to the airport.
 

TheSiege

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I never said I wanted to fuck her. With that being said, I want to sleep with every chick I find fun and attractive regardless of their past.
 

HamburgerBoy

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You wanted to ask her out and then be cuckolded as she fucks three well-hung body builders, is that it?
 

crashtestdummy

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I never said I wanted to fuck her. With that being said, I want to sleep with every chick I find fun and attractive regardless of their past.

I think even if you just wanted to be friends, there's no really good way that this will go if you bring it up. Just be a friend, treat her like a coworker, and if she brings up the porn thing, you can chat about it with her then. Until then, just let it go.
 

Fritzo

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There's lots of levels of porn these days. When the OP says "Porn Star", does that mean "worked in a directed, multicamera production", or does it mean "my boyfriend used his cellphone to record us banging and we put it on the Internet", or does it mean "I set up a webcam on one of those sites and people paid me to do things."

Lots of different definitions these days
 

JEDI

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From what I have seen, she just seems like a super nice, always cheerful girl. She is loud though. But I would have never guessed porn star. I thought she was a nice little mormon girl.

how did u findout she did porn?
recognized her?
 

Anubis

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There's lots of levels of porn these days. When the OP says "Porn Star", does that mean "worked in a directed, multicamera production", or does it mean "my boyfriend used his cellphone to record us banging and we put it on the Internet", or does it mean "I set up a webcam on one of those sites and people paid me to do things."

Lots of different definitions these days

you could just google her name. however she "worked in a directed, multicamera production"

20 or so films
 

Fritzo

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I never said I wanted to fuck her. With that being said, I want to sleep with every chick I find fun and attractive regardless of their past.

Just a warning- a lot of girls that do porn are emotionally damaged. The closer you get the more you're going to uncover. Get prepared for the "molestation, drugs, abuse daddy issues" stories.
 

Newell Steamer

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Ask her out because you want to date her - not because she was a former porn star.

When she brings up she was a porn star, talk about it. Otherwise, don't.
 

ProchargeMe

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She looks pretty hot. I graduated high school with a girl that now goes by Charity Bangs in the porn world.
 

Exterous

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I've worked with an ex-porn star before and I wouldn't mention it to her. Some are ok with it and don't mind but some are bat shit crazy. Although if you do talk about it you might get to hear some pretty crazy stories

Being a legit porn star is a pretty shitty job apparently. Lot of drug abuse, allegations of sexual assault, the constant fear of STDs, mental health issues.

Well it depends on what you consider 'shitty'. My understanding is that if you are good at what you do:

its an easy way to make money?

and that can counter act a lot of downsides. There's the sex part too. But yeah the drug abuse is insane...
 

dank69

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I've worked with an ex-porn star before and I wouldn't mention it to her. Some are ok with it and don't mind but some are bat shit crazy. Although if you do talk about it you might get to hear some pretty crazy stories



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I think tact is all that is necessary. You don't mention anything about porn, you just ask her what she did before working here.
 

Jaskalas

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Do you think a person that quit porn at a relatively early age while apparently somewhat well-known because of family knowing is someone that wants to discuss it?
Was that english?
Lol I didn't understand what he was saying either.

... how did you both...
I'll spell it out.

Do you think a person that quit porn at a relatively early age while apparently somewhat well-known because of family knowing is someone that wants to discuss it?

Do you think a person that... (details) wants to discuss it? No.
 

Exterous

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I think tact is all that is necessary. You don't mention anything about porn, you just ask her what she did before working here.

And she may be fairly open about it esp if you are friends or have a good working relationship. Thats how I found out
 
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