These threads always gnaw at me because I pulled my self out of the gutter and built something from it. Every ones always talking about pulling yourself up by your boot straps like its a joke, I know it isn't because I did it.
If you notice you had 2 thumbs down and 1 snooze applied to your post by people on this forum. I gave you a thumbs up.
The general tilt here overall leans left by a hefty amount. I only come around here because I've been here since the site went up, if I walked in today or anytime over the past so many years I'd been like hell naw these are some of the biggest bunch of whiners who don't want to lift a finger to help themselves and all they do is complain, complain, and then complain some more.
Tell you what man, I grew up with an outhouse. Spring water from a hose stuck in the side of a hill. People got iPhone 32 and think they're due iPhone 34 for free and their service bill should probably be subsidized by the government. It's pathetic, the entitled BS. I grew up with chickens perched on the front doorway, man, and people think things are so bad. Some might truly be, but I don't buy all of it.
Many have no hunger for self betterment. Drive. Ambition. Not willing to take calculated risks. Not willing to fail so they can learn. Not willing to make hard calls and defer it to someone else.
The staggering irresponsibility of leaving your future in the government's hands is so alien to me. Smart decisions, the best you can do anyway, and fiscal responsibility can take you far.
I didn't even graduate HS, let alone attend college. I DO have a HS diploma today (because I wanted one before my oldest graduated just to say I had one, it did actually bug me).
I'll tell you what I did instead of being told what I should and shouldn't be doing, what I did instead of being told what to think or not think, I got off my rear end.
I worked. Ground level. Worked myself up. Networked. Moved around. Went from the country to the city where the jobs were. I've lived in neighborhoods where streets had nicknames like Uzi Alley, and for good reason. Learned how to talk and communicate with all forms of life, and calling some people forms of life is a compliment perhaps undue. Education? I learned by instruction in the field or taught myself solo and you want to know how much that cost me? It cost my attention and not a single dollar.
Now I do what I want, largely went I want, how I want, because people know I'm going to get it done and I'm compensated for it. I show up. I've literally never taken a sick day in my life. At my current workplace I've almost accrued 200 hours of sick leave and you won't find me using any of it short of an epic disaster. People can't even show up and expect the world to fall in their lap. It doesn't work that way. Show up and try to do the same thing better than everyone else around you ... invariably, some year, someone is going to notice.
So, yea. Thumbs up. Thanks for being a positive aspect of our society, it is appreciated.