If I'm in a strange place, I leave it the way I found it. With a woman in the house I'll concede to leaving the seat down. It's not that big a deal.
I don't understand why people would stay in situations where they are not happy. I've always told her that if the day comes either of us are not happy, we should just move on. She's ok with that, and so far, we have always been happy. My friends can't seem to understand how I can have this relationship that isn't based on fear of what my wife will think.
I actually hate her being in my kitchen. She could burn water.
I'm a trained chef and have ways I like to do things. She doesn't do those things
No, I am... Sometimes you just need to take the "stance of dominance" in order to not be transformed into a doormat, though...
call me old fashioned but i thought marriage was for better or for worse. try to fix the marriage, instead of looking for a new one.
can't think of any quirks really... she would walk past a napkin on the floor at home and not pick it up. Is that quirky?
The other one is a safety hazard for women.
can't think of any quirks really... she would walk past a napkin on the floor at home and not pick it up. Is that quirky?
I must be weird because I always look at the toilet before I use it.
Fixing is not about changing people, because you can't change people. It's about finding ways to hide from the truth. For example, I like me and the way I am. If I wife tried to change me because she didn't like me, I think should would be better off finding someone else.
You look at marriage from a religious standpoint, but we got married for the legal aspects only. If there were no legal advantages to marriage, we would have been fine the way things were. Being atheists has advantages tof no guilt for sex and living together.
will only fill the coffee maker with cold water because 'it tastes better'
wont clean anything in cold water, because it wont 'get as clean' (when using cleaning solution) and always uses atleast double the mfg recommended amounts of cleaners
I know a couple who got married and moved into a condo together. She would not allow him to poop in the bathroom in their condo, she forced him to go downstairs to the fitness area and use the bathroom there and if we was going to pee in the condo bathroom, he had to sit so he didn't accidentally splash.
Not surprisingly they divorced a year later, but amazingly they are now back together after two years apart!
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i can see what you are saying. i dont believe someones core character changes too much over time. so what you see at the altar is more or less what you get. i could be wrong, im not married. im atheist so no religious standpoint, just making a personal vow to each other seems very sacred. when you give them your word,
Standing around the water cooler this morning, we were all talking about our wives, and each one of us was able to spout off something instantly that was completely unreasonable about them. WTF is wrong with women?
- One mentioned their wife takes the batteries out of the remote controls when they're not in use.
- One won't allow their wireless router and DSL modem to stay on over night because it uses too much electricity.
- One throws away any food that is more than 1 day old in the refrigerator.
- One won't allow anything to sit on a table or counters. The poor guy has to charge his cell phone at work because it's not allowed to be on the counter while charging.
There were a good dozen or more of these stories. I think the penis releases hormones that level out your personality as you get older. The lack of one is making them go crazy
My fiancee and could be be talking to me on Skype/Facebook Chat and at the same time, she will start a completely different (and irrelevant) discussion thread via text messaging. I have told her about a dozen times already, "Just because you have unlimited texts doesn't mean you HAVE to send out 500 texts every day." but I don't think she gets it. She has this insatiable need to text every waking minute.
I actually disable my message alert tone when I'm at work. I have told her a million times that I barely have time to scratch my nose or grab a quick bite when I'm at work but she still considers it important to broadcast all her thoughts via text, including:
1) Did you have something to eat?
2) When will you have dinner?
3) What will you have for dinner?
4) Why don't you pack dinner instead of eating cafeteria food all the time?
5) Have you tried switching to fruit juice instead of soda?
6) How many cigarettes have you had today?
7) I liked how Dunhill smells. Why are you smoking Marlboro these days?
8) I just uploaded a picture on Facebook. Do you Like it?
9) Oh, you saw it. You liked it too. Can you Like it on Facebook too?
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Y U NO STOP TEXTING? /rage
My mom kinda did that.My exwife went crazy as she got older, it was like she went biopolar.
If the kids were doing something she did not like, instead of dealing with the issue, she would go into screaming fits of rage.
The same thing went for me. If there was an issue, instead of talking about it, the only way she knew how to deal with a problem was a screaming fit.
I finally drew the line, I left and we divorced.
My exwife was not like that when we met. As she got older she got worse with her anger issues. One thing that helped desolve the marriage was when she refused to get help. Several times I tried to sit down with her and talk about the issue, and her answer was another screaming rage tantrum.
My fiancee and could be be talking to me on Skype/Facebook Chat and at the same time, she will start a completely different (and irrelevant) discussion thread via text messaging. I have told her about a dozen times already, "Just because you have unlimited texts doesn't mean you HAVE to send out 500 texts every day." but I don't think she gets it. She has this insatiable need to text every waking minute.
I actually disable my message alert tone when I'm at work. I have told her a million times that I barely have time to scratch my nose or grab a quick bite when I'm at work but she still considers it important to broadcast all her thoughts via text, including:
1) Did you have something to eat?
2) When will you have dinner?
3) What will you have for dinner?
4) Why don't you pack dinner instead of eating cafeteria food all the time?
5) Have you tried switching to fruit juice instead of soda?
6) How many cigarettes have you had today?
7) I liked how Dunhill smells. Why are you smoking Marlboro these days?
8) I just uploaded a picture on Facebook. Do you Like it?
9) Oh, you saw it. You liked it too. Can you Like it on Facebook too?
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Y U NO STOP TEXTING? /rage