I have to say for initial conversation and interest that it is attractiveness that gets me interested. I've had attractiveness supersede a crappy personality, but I've never had a great personality supersede someone's bad looks. Not that I care, but does that make me shallow? I'm talking relationship wise and not just one night standwise. I doubt I could have a serious relationship with someone who has a terrible personality, but since I weigh looks more a really attractive person can have a more mediocre personality.