Originally posted by: pulse8
It means he wants all of the benefits and none of the problems of a relationship. (benefits meaning sex and someone to hang out with if his friends are busy)
Tell him to piss off.
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: pulse8
It means he wants all of the benefits and none of the problems of a relationship. (benefits meaning sex and someone to hang out with if his friends are busy)
Tell him to piss off.
:thumbsup:
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: pulse8
It means he wants all of the benefits and none of the problems of a relationship. (benefits meaning sex and someone to hang out with if his friends are busy)
Tell him to piss off.
:thumbsup:
Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: pulse8
It means he wants all of the benefits and none of the problems of a relationship. (benefits meaning sex and someone to hang out with if his friends are busy)
Tell him to piss off.
:thumbsup:
Meh, we don't even know anything about the guy. I know I've been in a couple situations where I wanted to just be friends w/ benefits with a girl. It worked with one girl for a small while until I graduated and moved away, another time the girl wanted the relationship to become more, and I didn't. Atleast he's not stringing you along letting you think you're in a real relationship while he goes on dates behind your back.
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: pulse8
It means he wants all of the benefits and none of the problems of a relationship. (benefits meaning sex and someone to hang out with if his friends are busy)
Tell him to piss off.
:thumbsup:
Meh, we don't even know anything about the guy. I know I've been in a couple situations where I wanted to just be friends w/ benefits with a girl. It worked with one girl for a small while until I graduated and moved away, another time the girl wanted the relationship to become more, and I didn't. Atleast he's not stringing you along letting you think you're in a real relationship while he goes on dates behind your back.
Yeah, we do know something about the guy--he's a guy. I'm a guy, and I know if I said that to a girl it would mean exactly what pulse8 said (although that's not something I'd likely say in the first place).
Originally posted by: wiredspider
So I my b/f and backed off to just being friends, basically I think that means we broke up. I of course still love the guy. Been talking to him lately to figure out what he wants. He had said he didn't want to be involved because we both have to much going on (he works and I got to college..). Anyhow, he says he does want to be involved, but doesn't want it to get too serious. So wtf does that mean from a guy? Thanks for any insight, maybe some of it will clear my crazy mind up.
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: wiredspider
So I my b/f and backed off to just being friends, basically I think that means we broke up. I of course still love the guy. Been talking to him lately to figure out what he wants. He had said he didn't want to be involved because we both have to much going on (he works and I got to college..). Anyhow, he says he does want to be involved, but doesn't want it to get too serious. So wtf does that mean from a guy? Thanks for any insight, maybe some of it will clear my crazy mind up.
It means he wants to still have sex while pursuing possiblity of sex with others.
You're the backup. Every guy has one.
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: wiredspider
So I my b/f and backed off to just being friends, basically I think that means we broke up. I of course still love the guy. Been talking to him lately to figure out what he wants. He had said he didn't want to be involved because we both have to much going on (he works and I got to college..). Anyhow, he says he does want to be involved, but doesn't want it to get too serious. So wtf does that mean from a guy? Thanks for any insight, maybe some of it will clear my crazy mind up.
It means he wants to still have sex while pursuing possiblity of sex with others.
You're the backup. Every guy has one.
Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: pulse8
It means he wants all of the benefits and none of the problems of a relationship. (benefits meaning sex and someone to hang out with if his friends are busy)
Tell him to piss off.
:thumbsup:
Originally posted by: wiredspider
Any other opinions? I kinda wish these things were the case so I could just forget about him... His actions haven't quite reflected the things said (ie I was totally drunk and he didn't try to take advantage).
Either way, time to move on... I've actually been totally honest with every guy that has asked me out, told them I was still in love with my ex. Should I really be telling them that right off the bat or something I should kinda keep to myself? I tell them because it feels like it would be unfair for them not to know that...
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Plus you are young... go out, have fun and don't worry about the guy who only wants things his way
Originally posted by: rbloedow
He wants to be friends with benefits.
Originally posted by: spanky
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Plus you are young... go out, have fun and don't worry about the guy who only wants things his way
that is great advice.
sooo............ how YOU doin' :laugh:
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: spanky
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Plus you are young... go out, have fun and don't worry about the guy who only wants things his way
that is great advice.
sooo............ how YOU doin' :laugh:
Me? I am old... in a committed relationship and a displaced parent!!
But on the good side... I found $250.00 in the pocket of a jacket I have not worn in a year and am trying to decide what I am gonna treat myself with!