Examples. I fall in both ideologies so tough to really apply to me. I am for small government and less spending. I’m for abortion. I think the military needs to be a third it’s current size. I’m for food stamps. I’m for gov assisting in daycare so parents can work. I’m against the push for "living wage" on entry level jobs. I’m for gay marriage. I’m against requiring someone being forced to create a symbol of it though (wedding cake). I’m against the trade war. I’m against the Orwellian concept of "hate speech".
That’s off the top of my head
Your idea of small government falls apart when you start naming what you want the government to do for you.
I'm not "for" abortion. I support a person's right to choose, but understand it's emotionally, socially, and financially a situation to situation basis. I can't justify legistlating religious based morals in that way.
Minimum wage hasn't kept up with inflation for decades, and corporations use this combined with social programs as corporate welfare.
Anyone with basic economic knowledge is against the trade war...even republicans. We're way past the point of corporations giving a fuck about us.
Not a bad list overall, but IMO, you got some thinking to do.
At this point, the republicans and most conservatives I encounter dont have anything politically in common with me.