Is judging people via the question they ask the norm around here? I had no idea that by asking those set of questions I'm declaring feminist as hypocrites. I guess I better be careful of what I ask around here since it so easily seem to touch a nerve.
No, you haven't touched a nerve. However, your post suggested that you believed that "such people" have double standards. IMO if you were honestly asking an open-ended question in an unbiased manner in order to learn something, you wouldn't have asked the question in such a way that carried what appear to be fairly obvious implications, especially in a forum where many people think that the words "feminist" and "feminazi" are synonymous.
If you represent the majority of the feminists
No, people who self-identify as feminists do not have an official spokesperson. I think the closest thing to an opinion in common with the majority of feminists is that they believe in gender quality with a focus on levelling the playing field for women in Western societies, but as with any ideologies, objectives, opinions, and definitions vary depending on whom you ask.
I've already pointed out the logical fallacies that make your first question problematic. As for your second question, as I've said already, it would depend on whom you ask. One might suppose that a female feminist is more likely to only care about issues that affect women specifically, that a male feminist might care about issues that represent gender biases aimed at men or women, or that a feminist of either gender cares about gender equality in general, or infinite degrees anywhere in the ideological region where feminism is supposed to reside in the spectrum of belief.