K1052
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The SSM movement just has to wait them out, worst case scenario.
If I say that God has called marriage sacred, that means nothing to those who do not believe in God. Nothing can be sacred or moral, logically, to those who do not believe in God or do not believe in something other than the physical world b/c there are no foundations and values can be shifted on a whim at the individual level and the societal level. This does not mean that I won't try to defend the sacred, even though it falls on deaf ears.
Amen!
And Semper Fi!
Men would mock the warning signs of the end of the age saying, These signs have always been around (2 Peter 3:3-4). The Bible even reveals their motivation, they love lust.
2 Peter 3:3-4
Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,
And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation
Men would mock the warning signs of the end of the age saying, These signs have always been around (2 Peter 3:3-4). The Bible even reveals their motivation, they love lust.
2 Peter 3:3-4
Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,
And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation
Men would mock the warning signs of the end of the age saying, These signs have always been around (2 Peter 3:3-4). The Bible even reveals their motivation, they love lust.
2 Peter 3:3-4
Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,
And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation
"Women should be silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak, but should be submissive, as the law also says." (1 Corinthians 14:34)tealk said:Men would mock the warning signs of the end of the age saying, These signs have always been around (2 Peter 3:3-4). The Bible even reveals their motivation, they love lust.
2 Peter 3:3-4
Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,
And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation
(Leviticus 25:44-46)44 And as for thy bondmen, and thy bondmaids, whom thou shalt have; of the nations that are round about you, of them shall ye buy bondmen and bondmaids.
45 Moreover of the children of the strangers that sojourn among you, of them shall ye buy, and of their families that are with you, which they have begotten in your land: and they shall be your possession.
46 And ye shall make them an inheritance for your children after you, to hold for a possession; of them shall ye take your bondmen for ever: but over your brethren the children of Israel ye shall not rule, one over another, with rigor.
And lest we forget:
(Leviticus 25:44-46)
Religion. There are secular and religious views of marriage, with religious being predominant; and TMK from a religious perspective gay "marriage" in the traditional sense simply isn't possible due to the religious defintion of marriage. To ask for Gay marriage is, to many people, to challenge the basic tenants of their faith.
I'm Deist and quite honestly I couldn't care less about the religious aspects. IMO Gays should be able to do whatever they want to, but at the same time I'm not going to ask people to sacrifice their faith for it.
Personally I think there should be an establishment of a homosexual denomination to solve the religious issue. God knows there are denominations for everything else under the sun (in almost every religion).
That said, forbidding legal marriage or "civil unions" is just flat out stupid. We have separation of Church and State for a reason.
The bolded statement is hogwash. It comes from the same narrow-minded sewer than insists that non-believers cannot possibly find life meaningful or worth living, that they cannot have a sense of morality even stronger than yours.
Frankly, having read the nonsense spouted by you self-righteous idiots, I can state with utmost confidence: I'll put my morality, my decency, my sense of compassion, my "goodness" up against yours any day. I'm a MUCH better human being than you will ever be.
And your statement demonstrates exactly WHY you and your ilk are in fact bigots: You are so narrow in your thoughts, so limited in your imagination, that have no capacity to conceive or grant that those with different fundamental beliefs from yours can feel powerfully compelled by their sense of right and wrong, that they can live their lives dedicated to doing the right thing.
You, apparently, need an authority figure to inform you what's right and wrong. You admit your feeble mind cannot figure it out for yourself. You need it written in a book that you BELIEVE comes from God, foolishly overlooking that in all likelihood the book you cling to so desperately is the product of error-prone humans creating chains of corrupted transcription.
My morality, on the other hand, is the product of thousands of generations of the human race struggling up from the muck, the product of what ACTUALLY gives life meaning.
I have great respect for those who gain strength and goodness from their religions. But when religions are just self-justifying delusions, I have nothing but contempt.
Some religions already perform gay marriages.
Nobody has (at any time) suggested that religions that do not wish to perform such marriages be required to.
First, I never said that you cannot have a sense of morality. I would never say that b/c that goes against my foundational beliefs. Everyone has a sense of morality to some degree (although it is possible to destroy it). I said you cannot logically claim morality if you come from a naturalistic perspective. How can you say "this is right" and "this is wrong" if what determines right and wrong come from inside of you alone? What if the "right and wrong" that comes from inside of me conflicts with your "right and wrong"? Who then can claim that they hold what is moral?
You can't even claim that the culture determines what is moral. Cultural morality also comes from single individuals. Cultural morality is based upon the morality of the majority of individuals within the culture. How is the morality of a group of people the "true" morality if it conflicts with morality of one individual? Is somehow the fact that there are more people who believe the same way is the determining factor in what makes morality?
If there truly is something called "morality," it has to come from something outside of human experience. Otherwise it is foolishness and merely a tool to wield by the majority. You feel "morality," and yet there is no such thing in a naturalistic perspective.
Probable motivation?
Only motivation
Ignorant religious based bigotry.
That's a very bigoted statement. An inability to conceive the alternative to a proposition.
By asking that bolded question, you again show your shallowness and lack of imagination. You PRESUME that - absent a message from God - what defines "the good" and "the bad" must comes from "inside the individual."
Again, hogwash. The concept of "good" and "bad" comes from what eons of human experience PROVES is good or bad. Murder is "bad" because it leads to a society filled with chaos, resentment, distrust, hatred, grief, loss, insecurity, fear, vengeance, and innumerable other self-evidently negative results. Do you get it: SELF-EVIDENT?
Do you REALLY think humanity needed God to say, "Thou shalt not kill?" Is it your "thesis" that the experience of civilizations is so arbitrary that without God whispering in our ears we wouldn't have been able to divine that a society that treats murderers with impunity is horrible? Did God really need to instruct us that theft, adultery, and lying are bad things? Can you really not understand how humanity with its advanced intellect can determine all by itself that what is destructive = "bad" and what is constructive = "good?"
Think of it as a form of natural selection: Those societies that did not embrace/enforce those behaviors that were constructive or did not discourage those behavior that were destructive tended to decline. Those that did tended to prosper. The "good" is what works. The "bad" is what doesn't.
But this is one of those fields where an individual's values, usually dictated at least in part by religion, indirectly intervene. The opposed don't have to cite the Bible, the religious definition is already implanted as the universal definition. See "preserving the institution of marriage".
OP: this answers the question pretty much, as well as predicts the eventual end to the issue:
http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2009/11/marriage-and-the-generations.html
Took me a minute to get it up. Should be there now.
You're grossly misinterpreting my post. It's so far off the beam that you conflate natural selection with "might makes right."Your attacks on the previous poster are pretty rude, and your own comments could get the same attacks.
You limit your discussion to one example, murder - picking one example only can easily lead to false conclusions about such a large issue as 'right and wrong'.
And even on your one example, you post both baseless claims - such as claiming 'natural selection' is the definition of 'good', even while arguing against the very implementation of 'natural selection' by legalizing murder and allowing the 'stronger' to kill the 'weaker' and purportedly strengthen the species - and a false argument for your position, talking about how 'societies that allow murder' don't last *proved from experience with such societies*, when there are no such societies I know of having been tried.
Your summary at the end is nothing but an amoral argument for 'might makes right' - the opposite of civilization and moral principles. Under your position, if Hitler had had the military might to win, he'd by definition be 'right', instead of just being powerful and wrong. Under your position, the robber who kills his victim and takes his property and gets away with it is 'right'. You say 'what works' is good, to the history of dictators who did well were 'right', and if one enslaved the US, he'd be 'right' too.
You posted simplistic blather that not only has nothing to say about what's right but actively promotes wrong and evil messages on the topic.
You did one thing right though, which was to challenge the only definition being religious dogma, and to point to other ways to look at the issue.
Natural selection seems to appeal those who look for the most simplistic position.
The most basic forms of human society are thuggish - systems where people are coerced to oppress one another for their own benefit and even more that of the 'rulers'. 'Right and wrong' don't play a big role in what happens in such societies. Our more evolved societies- welcome to the 18th century humanism - attempt to base society more on those principles.
Taking this bask to the thread topic, what's 'right and wrong' about gays and gay marriage involves a basic issue of one majority mistreating a minority for no good reason, whether that's execution, impriisonment, economic sanctions or denying the civil right of marriage. OUr political system offers no real protection for a minority like gays, beyond the conscience of the majority, which too often falls short (see centuries of racism).
You won't find much useful on what's right for gays and gay marriage in your 'natural selection' blather. A more rational and principled argument is required for that.
I've said many times that in my opinion, the only real argument for the discrimination against gays on marital rights is bigotry, empowered by the popular vote, where the majority who are not gay can without any price to pay go into a little box curtained off and express their bigotry. Progress is possible in that system, as shown with racism and sexism, but difficult.
Progress on racism and sexism came less from the majority simply doing what's right than from pressure those groups could bring that gays don't have. Women wanting the vote or an end to pay discrimination had the power both of numbers - just over half the population - and a unique position to inflict suffering on the men who voted. Little happend for a century on race after slavery was ended until the treatment of blacks became an international embarrassment and propaganda problem from the Soviets in the cold war, where US efforts to win the hearts and minds of third world nations who were being courted by communists who promised an end to the brutal western-backed governments were damaged by the pictures of the mistreatment of blacks in the US.
Gays lack that leverage. They simply have to appeal to morality and justice, and that's an uphill struggle as even former victims of discrimination - blacks - become the oppressor.
Their only real leverage usually has been the courts, where state constitutions' declarations of equality have had challenges their authors had not planned on by gays.
This has led to some victories that have helped 'get the majority used to equality', and make discrimination harder to justify. They're slowly overcoming bigotry.
Most people who oppose gay marriage simply have no idea about the injustice they are supporting. Democracy indulges their complacency.
"Let them eat civil unions". "Let them eat separate but equal".