The single card will beat an SLI setup at resolutions where performance is CPU limited, because of the tiny amount of overhead. Look at the 1600x1200 resolutions and you start to see pretty significant differences. The benchmarked games are also only the very first generation examples of these engines which have a lot of headroom technically speaking. If they made more use of the pixel/vertex shaders you would see even more of a difference at lower resolutions. This is why I personally find use in an SLI setup, because I want to be designing at the next level of detail.
Exactly.
Also, I still think that although the initial premium you pay on the mobo negates the savings on the video cards themselves, it is a one-time extra cost that can save money with later upgrades. When the next series of video cards is released that is significantly faster than a single 6800GT, instead of paying a premium on that card I can get a second GT for much cheaper and still have a competitive setup.
You're on a roll!
I would have a harder time justifying the investment if it were strictly a gaming machine, but as it was pointed out that is hardly the concern of any enthusiast regardless of field.
Err. There are very few instances in all of computing that require nearly the raw amount of system power as gaming. Sure, you've got CAD, video editing, and the like, but aside from that small sector of the population, you've got the rest of a significant percentage of the population that is interested in gaming. Kids are getting involved with computer games faster and faster and they are playing high-end games earlier and earlier (see the countless reports on 20/20, Dateline, and such TV journalism). One could also argue that consoles count as part of the PC gaming sector, as they have all the components of a PC albeit in a small factor form and more dumbarse-friendly. Gaming is a major drive of advancements in computers. Not to say that high-end computing is exclusively for gaming, but don't discredit games' contributions to the evolution of computers.