Originally posted by: Stefan
I bet they're Chinese parents
Shes polish. (well her grantparents are - her parents are just white. I dont know what kind of white though )
I'm Icelandic
I dated a pure-bred Polish girl (both her parents were 100% Polish). It was a VERY similar thing. There was a grandfather clock in the hallway. Her mother chose curfews in a seemingly arbitrary fashion (she would have to be home at like 10:00 on a Sat night, yet going out after a concert on a Thursday night, with the same group of people and school the next day, she could stay out until 12:30AM. WTF?). The grandfather clock was the official time. If she wasn't in the door by the time it finished chiming, her mother would be pissed. I would usually try and get there 15 min. early and then we'd sit on her doorstep and talk until we heard the clock chiming.
At the time, I was 18 and she was 15. Not quite the same age difference, and we were both in HS, so her mom's curfews made a little more sense. We broke up when I went to college. It was just too weird being in so different worlds. I no longer cared who got the clarinet solo in the fall band concert.
FWIW, I bumped into a friend 2 years later who was now dating her, so she was 17 or 18, and he was asking me on advice for how to deal with her strict and over-protective mother.
My advice to him was similar to what I posted earlier in this thread - you just got to deal with it. Staying on her parents' good side is a very good idea. Get her home early. If she can't/won't move out, then you gotta either deal with it, or move along.