Originally posted by: tikwanleap
(Hey this might sound like a marketing pitch, but I swear, I just heard about it and thought it might be interesting for all you YAGT people.)
One of my old college friends emails me out of the blue about these websites:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/alt/advancedseries/
http://www.doubleyourdating.net/
He actually bought the $299.99 dvd set and has been trying them out with success! So far he has like 5 emails and phone numbers from girls in the past week.
He said that if he could do it over again, he wouldn't get the dvds but get the cds instead, since the video doesn't really add much.
Hehe..... I just wanna see if anyone else would be willing to try this out and report back to us OTers.
I don't think women are looking for stalkers.Originally posted by: tec699
Step aside geeks and nerds alike! I'll tell you all what women want. Are you guys listening? Well the one thing women want is....
me!
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: tikwanleap
(Hey this might sound like a marketing pitch, but I swear, I just heard about it and thought it might be interesting for all you YAGT people.)
One of my old college friends emails me out of the blue about these websites:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/alt/advancedseries/
http://www.doubleyourdating.net/
He actually bought the $299.99 dvd set and has been trying them out with success! So far he has like 5 emails and phone numbers from girls in the past week.
He said that if he could do it over again, he wouldn't get the dvds but get the cds instead, since the video doesn't really add much.
Hehe..... I just wanna see if anyone else would be willing to try this out and report back to us OTers.
Go for it!
Originally posted by: Lazy8s
I know what women want. It's easy and NO guy ever gets it. All you imitators step aside.
Women want one thing: Attention, and all they can get.
They always want your attention, they want you to work less, listen more, talk all the time, cudle, not watch TV, not hang out so much with your friends, stop playing video games etc. etc.
When they say they want jewelery what they want is something that is going to make other people give them attention. Hence why they want that big diamond, so that everyone looks and they get all the attention.
The big wedding? It's because that's "their day" translation: they get all the attention of everyone.
The annoying expensive planning of the wedding? Everyone asks about it, wants to see stuff, they get to bother you, their parents talk to them about it, it's probably the most attention they get in their entire life.
They don't want to hae sex as much as us? Duh, talk about getting your attention If they with hold it enough we turn into babbling, drooling, begging morons. It's the easiest way to get attention.
1000 shoes and way too much clothes? All attention grabbers. If they had 5 shirts, 2 pairs of boxers, 2 pairs of sox and 2 oairs of pants like us people wouldn't notice all their new outfits and they would get less attention.
That's what it's all about for them is attention. They can call it "feeling loved" or "knowing you care" or whatever they want to but what it boils down to is women want all the attention all the time. End of story.
If you want women to love you lavish on the attention, if you want to test my theory give your girl 10% less attention than you do on a normal day and see what happens, just watch how much you hold back or it's gonna be a fight. No woman is different, there IS no exception. VBarying degrees? Yes but women are attention whores and there's no way around it. The simplest way to please a woman is give her your undevided attention and they will be happy....well, as long as they get everyone else's as well.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Lazy8s
I know what women want. It's easy and NO guy ever gets it. All you imitators step aside.
Women want one thing: Attention, and all they can get.
They always want your attention, they want you to work less, listen more, talk all the time, cudle, not watch TV, not hang out so much with your friends, stop playing video games etc. etc.
When they say they want jewelery what they want is something that is going to make other people give them attention. Hence why they want that big diamond, so that everyone looks and they get all the attention.
The big wedding? It's because that's "their day" translation: they get all the attention of everyone.
The annoying expensive planning of the wedding? Everyone asks about it, wants to see stuff, they get to bother you, their parents talk to them about it, it's probably the most attention they get in their entire life.
They don't want to hae sex as much as us? Duh, talk about getting your attention If they with hold it enough we turn into babbling, drooling, begging morons. It's the easiest way to get attention.
1000 shoes and way too much clothes? All attention grabbers. If they had 5 shirts, 2 pairs of boxers, 2 pairs of sox and 2 oairs of pants like us people wouldn't notice all their new outfits and they would get less attention.
That's what it's all about for them is attention. They can call it "feeling loved" or "knowing you care" or whatever they want to but what it boils down to is women want all the attention all the time. End of story.
If you want women to love you lavish on the attention, if you want to test my theory give your girl 10% less attention than you do on a normal day and see what happens, just watch how much you hold back or it's gonna be a fight. No woman is different, there IS no exception. VBarying degrees? Yes but women are attention whores and there's no way around it. The simplest way to please a woman is give her your undevided attention and they will be happy....well, as long as they get everyone else's as well.
One small problem,you forgot to think about the other part..the things women don't want,and that's any guy who thinks he's figured out some sort of "system" that works on all of us.
Women,just like men are individual people each with their own set of likes and dislikes.
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Lazy8s
I know what women want. It's easy and NO guy ever gets it. All you imitators step aside.
Women want one thing: Attention, and all they can get.
They always want your attention, they want you to work less, listen more, talk all the time, cudle, not watch TV, not hang out so much with your friends, stop playing video games etc. etc.
When they say they want jewelery what they want is something that is going to make other people give them attention. Hence why they want that big diamond, so that everyone looks and they get all the attention.
The big wedding? It's because that's "their day" translation: they get all the attention of everyone.
The annoying expensive planning of the wedding? Everyone asks about it, wants to see stuff, they get to bother you, their parents talk to them about it, it's probably the most attention they get in their entire life.
They don't want to hae sex as much as us? Duh, talk about getting your attention If they with hold it enough we turn into babbling, drooling, begging morons. It's the easiest way to get attention.
1000 shoes and way too much clothes? All attention grabbers. If they had 5 shirts, 2 pairs of boxers, 2 pairs of sox and 2 oairs of pants like us people wouldn't notice all their new outfits and they would get less attention.
That's what it's all about for them is attention. They can call it "feeling loved" or "knowing you care" or whatever they want to but what it boils down to is women want all the attention all the time. End of story.
If you want women to love you lavish on the attention, if you want to test my theory give your girl 10% less attention than you do on a normal day and see what happens, just watch how much you hold back or it's gonna be a fight. No woman is different, there IS no exception. VBarying degrees? Yes but women are attention whores and there's no way around it. The simplest way to please a woman is give her your undevided attention and they will be happy....well, as long as they get everyone else's as well.
One small problem,you forgot to think about the other part..the things women don't want,and that's any guy who thinks he's figured out some sort of "system" that works on all of us.
Women,just like men are individual people each with their own set of likes and dislikes.
MAybe so, but NOBODY doesn't like Sara Lee!
Originally posted by: Isla
LOL, I must not be a woman. *checks* Huh. I am.
I hate being the center of attention. I purposefully had a tiny, simple wedding and I could barely stand that.
When I dress to go somewhere, I worry that I might get too much attention, therefore pissing the women who want attention off. (There was one party when this one guy said LOUDLY, in front of his girlfriend... "There are three women wearing red dresses at this party, but Isla looks the best!" It was not a comfortable moment.)
I far prefer the serenity of being behind the scenes, and if I get attention, I want it to be for what work I have done.