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ThERibMaSTeR

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So i take care of my gf all last night because she was running a fever. Today she goes to work and sends me a nice email thanking me for taking care of her. Well today she had to go the ER and someone from work took her. They bring her to my place. Well she had to get 2 IV's and she was really groggy. So i tell her she needs to stay over at my place while i go to work, but she insists on me taking her home. So i do. I told her i would be coming by later on to check on her. I told her to turn off her ringer so she would get some rest. Well i stop by. I have keys to her door and so i just walk in expecting her to be in the bed upstairs. WEll i walk in and notice the lights are on and then she appears just as i round the corner toward the living room. And what do you know there is a guy sitting on the couch and she was asleep on his lap. WEll she comes up to me and tries to give me big hug. well i back off and go in the kitchen. WEll she follows me in there. I ask her the $%^that is. SHe says a friend. WEll this friend had slept with her best friend who said that was lacking. Well anyway i had told her to to call me if she needed anything, and i would be glad to leave work and get her whatever she needed. The guy calls her alot and has expressed interest in her and not just friends. She said he called her and said he would bring her some soup over. She said she fell asleep on the couch and he was on the floor. SO when i walked in she was in his lap asleep. I was really upset abou the whole ordeal. SHe said she didnt do anything. I trust that, i was really mad that she was in that situation. So i ask what would you do in that situation. I will tell yall what i actually did if i get a few responses.
 

Shockwave

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Well, by walking into the kitchen, you went farther into that place then I would have. And I assume your going back to her place, which I would never do again.
*hint hint* If she gonna blow some guy while she's datin me and I'm at work, I aint gonna be round NO MO!
 

bolido2000

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You should be upset. I think the whole situation is fishy since she knows the guys intentions. Sorry dude..but I wouldn't trust your gf.
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Well, by walking into the kitchen, you went farther into that place then I would have. And I assume your going back to her place, which I would never do again.
*hint hint* If she gonna blow some guy while she's datin me and I'm at work, I aint gonna be round NO MO!

i told her i would coming by later to check on her
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: bolido2000
You should be upset. I think the whole situation is fishy since she knows the guys intentions. Sorry dude..but I wouldn't trust your gf.

Sorry dude, you shouldnt HAVE a girlfriend. Time to play the field.

(Thats to the original poster, not the qouted guy)
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: bolido2000
You should be upset. I think the whole situation is fishy since she knows the guys intentions. Sorry dude..but I wouldn't trust your gf.

I really do care about her, i have never dated anyone this long in my life.
BTW i am 22
 

bolido2000

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Originally posted by: ThERibMaSTeR
Originally posted by: bolido2000
You should be upset. I think the whole situation is fishy since she knows the guys intentions. Sorry dude..but I wouldn't trust your gf.

I really do care about her, i have never dated anyone this long in my life.
BTW i am 22

It doesn't matter how old you are. Don't let fear hold you back in doing what is right for you. IMO you are gonna get hurt sooner or later.
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: ThERibMaSTeR
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Well, by walking into the kitchen, you went farther into that place then I would have. And I assume your going back to her place, which I would never do again.
*hint hint* If she gonna blow some guy while she's datin me and I'm at work, I aint gonna be round NO MO!

i told her i would coming by later to check on her

*heh* You did!
You checked.
She had her head head in the lap of someone you KNOW would sleep with her, and she knows it to. Whats that say man? She either REALLY trusts you, or she's playin the field.

You checked, she was layin with someone else, you left

Course, keep in mind, its always about 9 million times easier to tell someone else what to do, rather then do it yourself.
if *I* were you...I'd do some serious examining of how my relationship has been going, and what her actions have been..........
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: ThERibMaSTeR
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Well, by walking into the kitchen, you went farther into that place then I would have. And I assume your going back to her place, which I would never do again.
*hint hint* If she gonna blow some guy while she's datin me and I'm at work, I aint gonna be round NO MO!

i told her i would coming by later to check on her

*heh* You did!
You checked.
She had her head head in the lap of someone you KNOW would sleep with her, and she knows it to. Whats that say man? She either REALLY trusts you, or she's playin the field.

You checked, she was layin with someone else, you left

Course, keep in mind, its always about 9 million times easier to tell someone else what to do, rather then do it yourself.
if *I* were you...I'd do some serious examining of how my relationship has been going, and what her actions have been..........


well that has been the first thing that has really bothered me.
I mean we spend all our time together.
I sleep over their.
Hell she even gave me a key to her house.


 

Shockwave

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So, how often has HE been over there? How often has he had a chance to? Maybe talk to her girlfriends. (Your g/f's friends) and talk to them abou tit. Just tell them how you feel. You'd be suprised how a girl friend will rat out her girl friends sometimes......

Start by talking to her - Express your concern and disapproval of the situation (Do it NICELY! DONT be an ass, dont be mean and God DONT throw accusations OF ANY TYPE)
She will then know you runhappy with that
Next, talk to her girlfriends. Dont try to make her sound like an evil witch, just explain your feelings, how you feel, and how you feel about the situation to one of her friends, and see what they say.

If ytou dont talk to your g/f first, then the girl you talk to may go BACK to your g/f and then your g/f will be pissed because "You dont trust me enough to talk to me about it?"

^^If you want to try n save it. I still say walk. Unless your fat, smelly, wear glasses and ugly you CAN find another girl

(I just broke someones memorial to thier dead son, by God I KNOW this guy is gonna be fat, smelly ugly and wear glasses.....)
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
So, how often has HE been over there? How often has he had a chance to? Maybe talk to her girlfriends. (Your g/f's friends) and talk to them abou tit. Just tell them how you feel. You'd be suprised how a girl friend will rat out her girl friends sometimes......

Start by talking to her - Express your concern and disapproval of the situation (Do it NICELY! DONT be an ass, dont be mean and God DONT throw accusations OF ANY TYPE)
She will then know you runhappy with that
Next, talk to her girlfriends. Dont try to make her sound like an evil witch, just explain your feelings, how you feel, and how you feel about the situation to one of her friends, and see what they say.

If ytou dont talk to your g/f first, then the girl you talk to may go BACK to your g/f and then your g/f will be pissed because "You dont trust me enough to talk to me about it?"

^^If you want to try n save it. I still say walk. Unless your fat, smelly, wear glasses and ugly you CAN find another girl

(I just broke someones memorial to thier dead son, by God I KNOW this guy is gonna be fat, smelly ugly and wear glasses.....)

Well i didnt go off on her or anything, i did express my sincere disapproval of the situation. And asked her to turn the tables around and what she would do. She said she would mad. She has seen this guy maybe one time with her best friend around<the girl that had sex him and said he was "lacking"
I told her to tell the guy to leave and she did. and then i expressed my thoughts somemore.
I ended up leaving and she wants me to go over there first thing when i get off in a few hrs.\\
If i dont show up she will be calling me.
What to do about that?


Edit.. that was the first time he had been over.
 

Shockwave

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Tough call. What about the dude that was there? Is he a slimeball (Would he sleep with her while she was dating?) Has he been trying to hook up with your girl? Have they ever dated in the past? How long has she known him?
I mean, I got 5 bucks says *I* would hook up with your girl if I got the chance, so saying he has expressed interest is kinda lacking in detail. Every guy wants to date like...70% of the women they meet. Have you had any problems in the past with your girl? Like, weird numbers or calls or anything to make you think she might be givin "lap naps" to others while your not there?
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Tough call. What about the dude that was there? Is he a slimeball (Would he sleep with her while she was dating?) Has he been trying to hook up with your girl? Have they ever dated in the past? How long has she known him?
I mean, I got 5 bucks says *I* would hook up with your girl if I got the chance, so saying he has expressed interest is kinda lacking in detail. Every guy wants to date like...70% of the women they meet. Have you had any problems in the past with your girl? Like, weird numbers or calls or anything to make you think she might be givin "lap naps" to others while your not there?

I dont really know the guy. He has expressed interest in her over the phone. He is ugly to boot. Never dated. About 3 months. Their hasnt really been a chance because we are always together. No weird calls or anything. Their hasnt really been any other thing i can think of. She doesnt try to hide stuff from. I have been over their when he has called.
 

Shockwave

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"He is ugly to boot"

To you, or to her...

Meh, its someone elses turn. I dunno what to tell ya. I know I dont trust women very much. But, sounds like your girl doesnt hide anything from you, so.....

I guess, let it slide this time, and keep an eye out. If he appears / calls more / just seems around more in the next few months...Your gettin played. If his presence seems to diminish....Well....

To the victor go the spoils.

BTW, you owe me pics buddy
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
"He is ugly to boot"

To you, or to her...

Meh, its someone elses turn. I dunno what to tell ya. I know I dont trust women very much. But, sounds like your girl doesnt hide anything from you, so.....

I guess, let it slide this time, and keep an eye out. If he appears / calls more / just seems around more in the next few months...Your gettin played. If his presence seems to diminish....Well....

To the victor go the spoils.

BTW, you owe me pics buddy

thanx i do really appreciate ur input
i will see what i can do about a pic

Btw she said she would talk to him again
 

Shockwave

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She would talk to him again? About what? Hopefully about not talking to her!

As for pics...Nekkid preferably
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
She would talk to him again? About what? Hopefully about not talking to her!

As for pics...Nekkid preferably


oops i meant would NOT talk to him anymore.

Oh nekkid i do have those
i might could pass one of those ur way
but no head shot
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: ThERibMaSTeR
Originally posted by: Shockwave
She would talk to him again? About what? Hopefully about not talking to her!

As for pics...Nekkid preferably


oops i meant would NOT talk to him anymore.

Oh nekkid i do have those
i might could pass one of those ur way
but no head shot

Few things.
You gotta cool girl if she's gonna not talk to him. I say just make sure you tell her how you fell BUT BE NICE!! No accusations, no threats. Dont make it sound like "you" make it sound like "I feel" You dont want it to be a downfall of hers, rather a concern of yours. Does that make sense?

Nekkid no head shot is good. Lets start there

specop_007@yahoo.com

I WANT THE NEKKIDNESS!
 

Kadarin

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I'm sorry, but to me this situation sounds REALLY fishy.. You go to check on your sick g/f to find that she's sleeping with her head in the lap of some guy you don't know? Some guy who it turns out wants to get with her? To me, that is not acceptable, and the fact that she herself said she would be upset if the situation were reversed proves that; women are not allowed a double standard in this case.
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
I'm sorry, but to me this situation sounds REALLY fishy.. You go to check on your sick g/f to find that she's sleeping with her head in the lap of some guy you don't know? Some guy who it turns out wants to get with her? To me, that is not acceptable, and the fact that she herself said she would be upset if the situation were reversed proves that; women are not allowed a double standard in this case.

I have to wait till I get nekkid pics to back that up.
If she's really hot, keep her, but find another too
 

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I don't know, at the least i would probably threaten him to stay away from my gf... if he didn't have an interest in her, that would be different, but obviously he does. But knowing me, i probably would have wigged out and kicked the sh1t out of him.
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: Moralpanic
I don't know, at the least i would probably threaten him to stay away from my gf... if he didn't have an interest in her, that would be different, but obviously he does. But knowing me, i probably would have wigged out and kicked the sh1t out of him.

Cause your a Tuff Guy huh....


 

Looney

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: Moralpanic
I don't know, at the least i would probably threaten him to stay away from my gf... if he didn't have an interest in her, that would be different, but obviously he does. But knowing me, i probably would have wigged out and kicked the sh1t out of him.

Cause your a Tuff Guy huh....



Better than to come mope on AT. I normally act on my feelings, however wrong they may be. It's cathartic, and i don't have to bottle up my feelings and endlessly worrying about it, and whining on AT (not saying this is... but 1/5 of all the posts on this board seems to be about relationship problems, all stemming from people not knowing what to do or lacking the ability to do it). If you're upset, show them your upset. If you're angry, release it appropriately. If i walked into a room and found my gf's head in some guy's lap, you bet i'm going to be pissed off. Some people could ignore that and come post about it on AT asking for advice, but i couldn't.
 

ThERibMaSTeR

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Originally posted by: Moralpanic
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Originally posted by: Moralpanic
I don't know, at the least i would probably threaten him to stay away from my gf... if he didn't have an interest in her, that would be different, but obviously he does. But knowing me, i probably would have wigged out and kicked the sh1t out of him.

Cause your a Tuff Guy huh....



Better than to come mope on AT. I normally act on my feelings, however wrong they may be. It's cathartic, and i don't have to bottle up my feelings and endlessly worrying about it, and whining on AT (not saying this is... but 1/5 of all the posts on this board seems to be about relationship problems, all stemming from people not knowing what to do or lacking the ability to do it). If you're upset, show them your upset. If you're angry, release it appropriately. If i walked into a room and found my gf's head in some guy's lap, you bet i'm going to be pissed off. Some people could ignore that and come post about it on AT asking for advice, but i couldn't.

i have already acted on my emotions
i just wanted to see how other people would react

 
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