Mine is this:
My wife is not a nite owl, and I am. My most talkative time about our issues is, and will always be about 10-11 o'clock. Her time of bed.
So when I go in there and tell her goodnight, if something needs to be talked about, that's when I try to talk about it. WE work different schedules, so that is the best time for both of us.
My wife will try to talk for a little bit, but after about 5 minutes, sleep becomes more important than anything else. We could be talking about insurance, investments, family, all these important things, but invaribly, the answer always comes.
"Well, that's great. Now get the hell out"
or
"Well that's great. Shut the Fvck up. "
Funny thing is, when she says those things, we both laugh.
-->still trying to learn how to discuss all important things in a span of 4-5 minutes
My wife is not a nite owl, and I am. My most talkative time about our issues is, and will always be about 10-11 o'clock. Her time of bed.
So when I go in there and tell her goodnight, if something needs to be talked about, that's when I try to talk about it. WE work different schedules, so that is the best time for both of us.
My wife will try to talk for a little bit, but after about 5 minutes, sleep becomes more important than anything else. We could be talking about insurance, investments, family, all these important things, but invaribly, the answer always comes.
"Well, that's great. Now get the hell out"
or
"Well that's great. Shut the Fvck up. "
Funny thing is, when she says those things, we both laugh.
-->still trying to learn how to discuss all important things in a span of 4-5 minutes