OBLAMA2009
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i would never ask that and i would never expect someone to answer that. having said that, people offer that type of info in conversation all the time
Of course there is. Don't be so silly. Hell, ask that guy making $19k how he likes it.
The best way to get around this is to laugh it off and cover it with a joke. If they push, give them an answer they like (just not a number). If they really push then that's when you tell them you don't talk about work specifics. Done.
When is it ok to ask people how much they make
Why does it bother anyone to be asked how much they make?
Is it because income is somewhat like penis size?
I always reply with "not enough."
Of course there is. Don't be so silly. Hell, ask that guy making $19k how he likes it.
That's a pretty simplistic and cliche assumption don't you think? I'm quite satisfied with both my penis and salary, but asking me about either one is pretty presumptuous and familiar.
The way some posters go on about it in their kind submissions to this thread, I got the idea. "Oh, I feel so inadequate and won't be able to satiate a female's hunger, because my paycheck is too small" has been a recurring theme.
"I have to show it if I want to get married, eventually!"
It's a bit ridiculous, if you ask me. If you're already talking about your job, might as well talk about the salary. If you're talking about being on the stock market, might as well talk about your placements and gains. Some threads are useless without pictures, and some discussions are pointless without numbers.
Within about 2 minutes of me sitting down this guy next to me asked me what I do for a living. Than after that he asked me so how much do you make ?
I have interest.....but only because I'm about to be fresh out of College and there are several paths in IT I could take.
Like, I'd ask a Sys Admin friend (that I was cool with, of course) just to see what its like. Are you underpaid? Do you feel like you get paid what you're worth? How is the job? etc.
If it seems like it makes them feel uncomfortable, I'd just back off.
So far, nobody has had a problem. Granted, I've only asked 3 people this question.