SagaLore
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Here are some guidelines:
1. You're married, so don't think about other women
2. Put your wife before yourself - if you both do that, then compromises come easier.
3. Try to make her life easier, the less stressed she is, the less she will stress you out
4. Sometimes, you just have to say you're sorry and was wrong (about anything) even though you aren't/weren't
5. Don't ever do anything stupid to lose her trust
6. Tell her she's beautiful every morning
7. Divorce is only for people that are selfish, people might change, but marriage is a COMMITMENT, so make it work no matter what
8. Don't pretend you like something, or she'll hold you to it years from now (a food/scack, movie, type of clothing, etc.)
9. If you want to talk to her about sex - wishes, problems, suggestions - do it much much before you're having it, not during or right after
10. Just remember there is a reason you married her, some days you might forget why, but always remember there was a reason, so no matter how you feel or how the situation is, you hold to that reason even if you can't remember what it was, because later you'll remember again and be glad you never gave separation a millisecond of thought
1. You're married, so don't think about other women
2. Put your wife before yourself - if you both do that, then compromises come easier.
3. Try to make her life easier, the less stressed she is, the less she will stress you out
4. Sometimes, you just have to say you're sorry and was wrong (about anything) even though you aren't/weren't
5. Don't ever do anything stupid to lose her trust
6. Tell her she's beautiful every morning
7. Divorce is only for people that are selfish, people might change, but marriage is a COMMITMENT, so make it work no matter what
8. Don't pretend you like something, or she'll hold you to it years from now (a food/scack, movie, type of clothing, etc.)
9. If you want to talk to her about sex - wishes, problems, suggestions - do it much much before you're having it, not during or right after
10. Just remember there is a reason you married her, some days you might forget why, but always remember there was a reason, so no matter how you feel or how the situation is, you hold to that reason even if you can't remember what it was, because later you'll remember again and be glad you never gave separation a millisecond of thought