mikeymikec
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- May 19, 2011
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It still wouldn't hurt to suck up to him.
Unless of course he realises that you're sucking up to him.
IMO it's an empty, antiquated, disrespectful gesture that makes absolutely no sense.
Furthermore, if I found out that my prospective parent-in-law was some sort of douche who thought their permission was worth seeking out to marry their adult daughter, I'd think twice about taking the relationship to that level, as their apparent notion of entitlement might interfere with an otherwise OK relationship in future. It might also say things about one's partner if the parent has developed this sense of entitlement without any objections from your partner.