Everyone wants a quick fix. There are no quick fixes. If you want results it's going to take time. Lots of time and being consistent day after day. People don't want to hear the truth.
This. I started making an effort to be more healthy last Thanksgiving. I tried to really cut down on eating pizza, fast food, processed snacks and drinking soda. That, by itself, isn't too much of a time sink. But after a month or two of it, I decided to get a bit more serious and made the commitment to logging everything on MFP, weighing everything with the scale and working out six days a week for about 45 minutes every evening.
On any given work/week night, I get home from work and start preparing lunch and snacks for the following day. During, or afterwards, I'll make or reheat my dinner for that evening. Afterwards, I clean up and do the dishes that require hand washing. Next, I workout. I alternate days between riding an exercise bike with moderate to high intensity and doing a calisthenics routine. Then pound down a protein shake and hit the shower. I've been trying contrast showers for a few weeks, so those take a couple extra minutes. By the time I'm finished with the whole process, I'll have an hour of time before bed, if everything went really well/quickly. It's not uncommon, though, that I
should go straight to bed after the shower. I'll usually end up staying up a bit later instead, causing my rest and recovery time to suffer, because I dislike feeling as though I had no free time to unwind any given evening.
The point is, I've made a choice to sacrifice my time, which used to be heavily invested in seeking out entertainment, in exchange for success with weight loss and improved fitness. It's been a challenge for me, because I used to watch A LOT of television before starting with all this. I have over 80+ hours of TV backlogged at the moment. I don't think I'm ever going to get through it, and the more time passes, the more I feel like I don't want to spend what little free time I have watching television anyways. It doesn't offer any tangible reward or benefit to my life. There will be a few exceptions that I really can't ignore and make time for, but by and large, I think I really need to make the leap and drop TV viewing as a hobby.
Anyways, at around Thanksgiving last year, I was 275 lbs (I'm 6'2"). As of this morning I'm 208 lbs and I'm much stronger and more fit overall. I intend to continue cutting down to the mid-180s, at least, but depending on how I look when I get there, I may go to the mid-170s. Once I get there, if I feel like saying, "I lost 100 lbs since last Thanksgiving," I can do so without it being a lie. Heh. Ultimately, my intention is to lose fat until I achieve a super cut up aesthetic. I haven't ever been ripped or shredded up and I want to see how it looks on me. The lowest weight of my adult life was 205 in my sophomore year of high school, so I'm very close to completely uncharted territory. Exciting times.