I totally understand the blame game when you give advice... I've been in IT for 18 years now and have almost completely stopped giving advice or offering help with family/friends computers, because it always ends up that whatever happens, I am responsible! I don't look to hold you accountable. I'm really looking for good advice, but you happen to be consistently responding to me (you too kevnich!) And I greatly appreciate it.
So here's what I'm kicking around in my head... the WL-500W seems to be very touchy when it comes to DD-WRT, which makes me reluctant to use it. It sounds like people are making a lot of bricks out of these things... But I've also heard that the stock firmware is total crap. Leaves me scratching my head. I've heard that the "oleg" firmware has the same miraculous effects on this router as DD-WRT in fixing stability/speed issues, but I don't really know anything at all about it. The 500W had slightly heftier specs than the 500g premium v2, plus support for N, but it seems like the g might be a lot more stable with DD-WRT.
I don't HAVE to have 802.11n, but given that 2 of the laptops have n adapters, I thought I could take advantage of it and do some load balancing at the same time.
The new Buffalo WZR-HP-G300NH router looks very sexy with lots of features and gigabit ethernet, but it had an estimated release date of yesterday and I still haven't found a place that's actually selling one. So who knows how it actually performs and how well it holds up with DD-WRT.
So I'm really just on a quest for information to make the best decision possible. I've almost pulled the trigger a couple of times, and so far I'm glad I haven't done it yet. It seems I keep gaining a little more insight each time. I think I really am leaning towards the Buffalo now, but I do have 5 children who all love youtube and the p2p crap (for legal purposes only) and just about everybody games. We're also getting ready to move to Germany, so I anticipate heavy skype usage and hulu streaming. So given the scenario where you said entry level routers buckle under pressure, that's the only thing that leaves me questioning not having some extra horsies for routing.
Oh my....