Why are people so hung up on sex?

[z1ggy]

Wait I thought OP was like... late 20's according to his drug rotted brain? Either way, I'm not surprised he hasn't had any poon for years.

 

[Fritzo]

I just don't understand the whole "I need to be with someone in a relationship, I can't stand to be alone"

It drives me crazy. Maybe I was meant to be a monk in a past life..but i'm pretty sick of the pof.com and fucking every piece of shit you meet.

Wow, you're bitter.

I know you had a bad experience, but not every woman is like that. My wife is also my best friend in the whole world, and I can't wait to see her every day (married 19 years this year).

There's someone like that out there for you too, but you sound like you've closed down any possibility of finding her. When you're that close to someone, the sex desire thing comes naturally.

Having a great rack doesn't hurt either

 

[Chapbass]

I got burned big time and will never put myself in that place again.

So what, exactly, do you mean by that? Cause it sounds like you just don't want to have sex anymore.

 

[Miramonti]

its like everyone I know is scared to sleep in their bed alone for just one night. Some fucked up shit man.

I got burned big time and will never put myself in that place again.

That's an unbelievable irony, to point out others' fear...

 

[alkemyst]

No surprises.

He probably is just 15 years old.

 

[alkemyst]

So what, exactly, do you mean by that? Cause it sounds like you just don't want to have sex anymore.

his hand cramped on him.

 

[Maleficus]

Wow, you're bitter.

I know you had a bad experience, but not every woman is like that. My wife is also my best friend in the whole world, and I can't wait to see her every day (married 19 years this year).

There's someone like that out there for you too, but you sound like you've closed down any possibility of finding her. When you're that close to someone, the sex desire thing comes naturally.

Having a great rack doesn't hurt either

I tend to agree with Louis CK here, there isn't necessarily someone out there like that for him, not targeting OP specifically, just saying I don't really believe there is someone out there for everyone.

That being said, I actually believe most people are compatible if they go into things with a willingness to try and work things out. just a sense of commitment.

I know, paradoxical comments, whatever. Congrats on what sounds like an awesome marriage fritzy

 

[slayer202]

I'll figure it out. Just gimme your sister's #

 

[smackababy]

I tend to agree with Louis CK here, there isn't necessarily someone out there like that for him, not targeting OP specifically, just saying I don't really believe there is someone out there for everyone.

That being said, I actually believe most people are compatible if they go into things with a willingness to try and work things out. just a sense of commitment.

I know, paradoxical comments, whatever. Congrats on what sounds like an awesome marriage fritzy

It really just comes down to a numbers game. If one is strictly into one gender, that means the potential number of people meeting that basic requirement is like 3.5 billion. Of those, I am almost 100% certain there is more than one in your acceptable age group that meets the compatibility requirements for being "the one". Now, does that mean you will meet them ore that they will feel the same about you? No, but you can't deny there is at least one out there.

 

[Maleficus]

It really just comes down to a numbers game. If one is strictly into one gender, that means the potential number of people meeting that basic requirement is like 3.5 billion. Of those, I am almost 100% certain there is more than one in your acceptable age group that meets the compatibility requirements for being "the one". Now, does that mean you will meet them ore that they will feel the same about you? No, but you can't deny there is at least one out there.

Ok, you're right strictly in terms of potential mates yes there probably is someone out there, and while we live in a time that has made the world seem much smaller, I was referring to something more plausible than the entire population of female/males.

 

[Tommy2000GT]

I haven't had sex in 15 years after my girlfriend dumped me. I have no problems since.

You seem bitter.

Now imagine if you had a girlfriend and sex for 15 years

 

[smackababy]

You seem bitter.

Now imagine if you had a girlfriend and sex for 15 years

I know someone that has been imagining a GF for a long time. =)

 

[RandomWords]

That being said, I actually believe most people are compatible if they go into things with a willingness to try and work things out. just a sense of commitment.

A study shows that's actually what makes most relationships that last, last. Not compatibility.

 

[RandomWords]

Some people actually have no desire to have sex or be with anyone... the majority of the population isn't that way though.

As the song goes, "everyone needs a hand to hold onto..." except the OP in this case... it isn't them that is abnormal, it is you... and that is okay to be - just don't try to take how you feel and apply it to how everyone else should feel... which is where it seems your frustration is coming from.

 

[TheSlamma]

I haven't had sex in 15 years after my girlfriend dumped me. I have no problems since.

just jealousy apparently

 

[Raduque]

People like that are damaged in some way, as are most. But these people aren't happy and confident, and try to fill holes (heh heh) with sex and attention.

Improve upon, be happy and confident with yourself, and the rest will fall into place.

PS: OP, you're just as messed up and unhappy as your siblings - or you wouldn't be here acting like this about their behavior.

 

[Fritzo]

I tend to agree with Louis CK here, there isn't necessarily someone out there like that for him, not targeting OP specifically, just saying I don't really believe there is someone out there for everyone.

That being said, I actually believe most people are compatible if they go into things with a willingness to try and work things out. just a sense of commitment.

I know, paradoxical comments, whatever. Congrats on what sounds like an awesome marriage fritzy

That's crap. If you think there is nobody out there compatible with your personality, you think you're totally unique...and that's very arrogant.

 

[alkemyst]

You seem bitter.

Now imagine if you had a girlfriend and sex for 15 years

You two should get a room at a Holiday Inn Express and profit!

 

[alkemyst]

Me and my fiancee woke up at 2am last night and had a great sleepy time trying to cum, but neither of us did since we missed our daily romp for two days. Gave up at 4am or so.

 

[db]

You're afraid you'll get burned again. Everybody gets hurt. Hurt is a normal part of life. Rather than turning away from it, embrace the hurt, learn from it, and then move forward.

 

[IronWing]

Seems pertinent.

 

[HamburgerBoy]

That's crap. If you think there is nobody out there compatible with your personality, you think you're totally unique...and that's very arrogant.

Does it have to be personality? There are definitely people of both sexes that could never be in a relationship due to one fucked up trait they possess or another.

 

[Hoober]

Me and my fiancee woke up at 2am last night and had a great sleepy time trying to cum, but neither of us did since we missed our daily romp for two days. Gave up at 4am or so.

Wait. Didn't screw for two days. Still couldn't blow a load?

 

[SheHateMe]

Damn, after 15 years, I'm sure its going to feel like you very first time. haha

 

[Staples]

I'm with you about being alone. I am married now but spent most of my 20s alone, rarely even saw friends outside of work. I was happy as can be.

If I went on a trip and was alone for months now, I would be just fine. My wife misses me after a day and I always say, wtf?