Interesting question. My bf and I just split up, extremely amicably, because we don't feel that dating each other is where God wants us right now (if I didn't feel that, I'd be making a much bigger fuss than I am) and because the relationship we were having wasn't to either of our satisfaction at the moment. Being single again, I'm not looking for another guy, not at all interested. I don't feel like I need a guy to make my life all good, and I enjoy being friends with guys without all the dating-stuff messing up the fun of hanging out with them. Fortunately, maybe because I make my views pretty widely known, no guys seem to consider me as anything potentially female, just as someone to hang with. So, why'm I single? God's timing, lack of desire for a guy right now, and (I'll be honest) whether because they know I'm not interested or because I'm not interesting enough, no guys like me *like that*.