Yeah, My mom still hates my dad after like 45 years...something about family that just sticks harder. of course, the other point of view is, "why should you expect that they would naturally just like each other"? There is this assumption that we should not dislike family member because they are family...Normal laws of civility should dictate that they have to get along, like them or not...but again, I think family member feel like they don't have to be civil because they are family...whatever. I have an open door policy. Like them or not the are welcome. I don't have to go out of my way to be nice, but I have to be civil.
Thats just women though. She will do whatever mental gymnastics are necessary to appear to be the one who is in the social right.Yeah, My mom still hates my dad after like 45 years...something about family that just sticks harder. of course, the other point of view is, "why should you expect that they would naturally just like each other"? There is this assumption that we should not dislike family member because they are family...Normal laws of civility should dictate that they have to get along, like them or not...but again, I think family member feel like they don't have to be civil because they are family...whatever. I have an open door policy. Like them or not the are welcome. I don't have to go out of my way to be nice, but I have to be civil.
What did he do? Let ATOT be the judge.Yeah, My mom still hates my dad after like 45 years...something about family that just sticks harder. of course, the other point of view is, "why should you expect that they would naturally just like each other"? There is this assumption that we should not dislike family member because they are family...Normal laws of civility should dictate that they have to get along, like them or not...but again, I think family member feel like they don't have to be civil because they are family...whatever. I have an open door policy. Like them or not the are welcome. I don't have to go out of my way to be nice, but I have to be civil.
She never knew you.And now Mayne has another avatar. I miss your daughter, bro.
Yep, exactly this. Don't assume that maturity necessarily correlates to age, that's not the case. I've observed a lot of the same too... It's sad, but there isn't always anything you can do about it.It's a sign of lack of maturity.