Originally posted by: D22
Saw a girl I used to work with at the mall, she was on the phone. I was going to wait, but when I saw she wasn't going to get off the phone anytime soon, I just went ahead and asked for her number, she gave me her real number...
I call her the next evening, she doesn't pick up, but does call me the next day. We then talk for about an hour. She told me all about her past year, I could deduce she did NOT have a BF, etc etc.
To get the ball rolling, I mentioned I could probably help her get a better job than where she is at now (which is true) and that I would talk to my boss and even if I couldn't help her where I am I could give her some information that would help her out. She was like,"that would be great, what do you need from me?" I said, well I have to go to work in just a minute, why don't I come over tomorrow early and we can get started. She said, "that's fine, I'll make sure I get up and I will give you a call."
No call...I called her 2 hours after she was supposed to call me, no answer. I called the next day when I KNEW she would be available, again, no answer so I leave a message. I refuse to call more than twice when I KNOW they are not busy and I can just envision them looking at their phone and seeing my number and deciding not to pick up...
There were no awkward moments during our hour-long phone convo and she even made a comment, "well it was great catching up with you, the convo flowed very nicely" or something to that affect.
I did have a 1 night stand with this girl way back too btw. We both got pretty wasted. But why the hell do you talk to someone for an hour if you are not interested and intentionally are going to ignore them from that moment on?
Originally posted by: D22
postmortem - no of course not! I would never even want such a thing....HAHAHAHA. But no really, I did not even insinuate anything. I do have more class than that....or do I.
Really each sex isn't that complicated.
Women = MONEY MONEY MONEY BABY $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Oh yeah, you weigh 600 lbs? Well just let me get on top then! *oh yeah, F'ing a man with so many bejamins just makes me tingle all over inside!"
Men = PUSSY JUICEY!!!! "Yeah I love to go ice skating too!"*If you mean ice skating as in I shove my huge MANSICKLE and twirl you on my mansickle four times while we videotape it for the audience!"
yeah we are all pretty simply I guess
Originally posted by: giantpinkbunnyhead
Dude. They're women. Stop trying to understand, you'll hurt yourself. Its the whole venus/mars thing you know.
Originally posted by: giantpinkbunnyhead
Originally posted by: D22
Yeah women can be so F'ing frustrating, but why not just give me a fake number, say it wouldn't be a good idea for us to talk, or just give me a quick courtesy call back and make up some crap about not being about to talk for a looong time because of bla bla bla...I've had similar situations happen a few times, why the hell waste your time along with the guys time?
again, stop figuring it out! You're using logic. Logic doesn't work on women. You need a more emotion-based approach.
Originally posted by: Majician
The whole "Didn't get off the phone to talk to me." and "Gave me her phone number WHILE she was still on the phone" Should have been your first RED FLAG. Any girl that says "I'll call you" and then DOESN'T that should make it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR that she wants nothing to do with you. She's not the only one in this world for you, Learn and move on.....
Originally posted by: D22
postmortem - no of course not! I would never even want such a thing....HAHAHAHA. But no really, I did not even insinuate anything. I do have more class than that....or do I.
Really each sex isn't that complicated.
Women = MONEY MONEY MONEY BABY $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Oh yeah, you weigh 600 lbs? Well just let me get on top then! *oh yeah, F'ing a man with so many bejamins just makes me tingle all over inside!"
Men = PUSSY JUICEY!!!! "Yeah I love to go ice skating too!"*If you mean ice skating as in I shove my huge MANSICKLE and twirl you on my mansickle four times while we videotape it for the audience!"
yeah we are all pretty simply I guess