Originally posted by: LordSegan
Realistically, how upset do you think she would be if she knew all that you say here?
Honestly, not that upset...
If I really believed this would seriouslly bother her, I would not say what I do. Her attitude is similar to mine (perhaps why we just "click"). She feels like none of this is really personal because everyone does it.
So we have sex, W O W... Hold the presses, that must be big news, right?
So we sometimes watch p0rn together, W O W... gee, couples NEVER do that, right?
So we sometimes have sex with ourselves when the other is away/not in the mood, W O W Ouch, that must mean we're cheating, right?
News flash, 3 billion other people do the same damm thing all the time, this isn't news.
Why do I know she wouldn't really care? Because of what she says when she's talking about our sex life with her friends and one of their friends who doesn't know her too well gets all shocked at what she says. I remember one specific time when she was talking about our trip down to the Gulf of Mexico one weekend. We snuck out onto the beach in the middle of the night when no one was around and made love under the moonlight. Her friend's friend gasped and said, "gosh, isn't that kinda personal". Her reply was, "why, you've never had sex anywhere but a bedroom? Millions of people a year have sex on a beach, so what?"
Oh, and before you ask why we'd be willing to have sex on a public beach (yea, I'm sure it is illegal, so sue us)... We're 500 miles from home, it is 3am, no one we know or will ever see again is within a hundred miles of the place. If by chance someone saw us, so what? We're two completely random people who mean nothing an hour later to whomever might see us.
Personally, I think America is far too uptight about sex in general...
What if she just looked up your history one day and found this little world?
Thankfully Google doesn't cache any of this.
Grasshopper