I don't know what the deal is. As long as I can remember I like having a girlfriend in the evening (or if I don't currently have a gf, I want one), but in the morning I feel relieved that I don't have a girlfriend (or if I do have one I feel like WTF am I doing I need to break up).
Basically, Nighttime=crave girls. Morning=crave being single.
I currently have a minor case of One-itis over a girl i went out with last friday. I'm afraid she might be trying to string me a long, so in order for me to not get too attached I decided last night as I went to bed that today in class I would ask out one girl to lunch, and in another class later that day another girl to study this evening. I knew the exact girls who I was going to ask out, both of them in my classes and each I've had an eye on for a while but have never talked to.
Well as I thought about this last night, I was super motivated and it felt like a great plan to keep my mind off the first girl. This morning I wake up and just like always, as I shower the thought of being in a relationship or tied down to any girl makes me feel like shigte. I feel relieved at the fact that I'm not in a relationship with the girl I have one-itis over, and the desire to ask out the other two girls is completely gone.
Similarly, when I have had girlfriends in the past, at night I feel fine having them around. However in the morning (especially while i'm in the shower or driving to work/school when I have plenty of time to think) I just hate the thought of being tied down and I realize I don't like these girls anyway cause generally no girl I've dated has ever met my standards. And it's not like I have exceedingly high standards (well I don't think so but some of my friends say otherwise).
So anyway to wrap it up. Even though the desire to ask those girls out was gone, i'm no pvssy and I did anyway because I thought "hey, maybe I was thinking clearer last night" so I went with that. Both mini dates were cool, but nothing exceptional. It was basically a good screening process because now I know that I have no desire to date either of those girls because neither of them interested me. And in all honesty, I feel like that because it was obvious I had both of these girls eating out of the palm of my hand. I had all the cards and I didn't even try.
<optional reading, this is where YAGT begins>
And to be even more honest, I'll bet the only reason I have this minor case of one-itis over girl number 1 is because of the absolute uncertainty of the whole situation. I don't know if she likes me. I like girls to like me, but when they do, 95% of the time I lose interest. And i'm almost positive if this girl ends up liking me I'll lose interest in her. But the reason I like her is because I've always wanted to date a beautiful brunette nurse, and this is the first time I've gotten it. I always fall into stupid blondes when all I want is a smart brunette. We went out on friday and it was great, we had a good time, she showed interest and said she definately wants to go out again some time and that she'd 'call me next week'. Yesterday (Sunday) evening I threw her a text just basically saying hi, how was your weekend to let her know I was thinking about her and interested, and I have yet to get an answer back. So now I'm afraid she was just BS-ing with me on the date and the lack of response is big sign saying get lost. I'm the kind of guy that thinks the ball is completely in her court and I will not get in contact with her again until she gets back to me.
Basically, Nighttime=crave girls. Morning=crave being single.
I currently have a minor case of One-itis over a girl i went out with last friday. I'm afraid she might be trying to string me a long, so in order for me to not get too attached I decided last night as I went to bed that today in class I would ask out one girl to lunch, and in another class later that day another girl to study this evening. I knew the exact girls who I was going to ask out, both of them in my classes and each I've had an eye on for a while but have never talked to.
Well as I thought about this last night, I was super motivated and it felt like a great plan to keep my mind off the first girl. This morning I wake up and just like always, as I shower the thought of being in a relationship or tied down to any girl makes me feel like shigte. I feel relieved at the fact that I'm not in a relationship with the girl I have one-itis over, and the desire to ask out the other two girls is completely gone.
Similarly, when I have had girlfriends in the past, at night I feel fine having them around. However in the morning (especially while i'm in the shower or driving to work/school when I have plenty of time to think) I just hate the thought of being tied down and I realize I don't like these girls anyway cause generally no girl I've dated has ever met my standards. And it's not like I have exceedingly high standards (well I don't think so but some of my friends say otherwise).
So anyway to wrap it up. Even though the desire to ask those girls out was gone, i'm no pvssy and I did anyway because I thought "hey, maybe I was thinking clearer last night" so I went with that. Both mini dates were cool, but nothing exceptional. It was basically a good screening process because now I know that I have no desire to date either of those girls because neither of them interested me. And in all honesty, I feel like that because it was obvious I had both of these girls eating out of the palm of my hand. I had all the cards and I didn't even try.
<optional reading, this is where YAGT begins>
And to be even more honest, I'll bet the only reason I have this minor case of one-itis over girl number 1 is because of the absolute uncertainty of the whole situation. I don't know if she likes me. I like girls to like me, but when they do, 95% of the time I lose interest. And i'm almost positive if this girl ends up liking me I'll lose interest in her. But the reason I like her is because I've always wanted to date a beautiful brunette nurse, and this is the first time I've gotten it. I always fall into stupid blondes when all I want is a smart brunette. We went out on friday and it was great, we had a good time, she showed interest and said she definately wants to go out again some time and that she'd 'call me next week'. Yesterday (Sunday) evening I threw her a text just basically saying hi, how was your weekend to let her know I was thinking about her and interested, and I have yet to get an answer back. So now I'm afraid she was just BS-ing with me on the date and the lack of response is big sign saying get lost. I'm the kind of guy that thinks the ball is completely in her court and I will not get in contact with her again until she gets back to me.