Dirigible
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I don't have a problem with pot, and think its criminalization causes more problems than it solves.
That said, it doesn't sound like you're being a baby. If you want to be a police officer and you're hanging out with law breakers without doing anything about it, it reflects quite badly on you. If you knowingly allowed it in your car, you are asking for big trouble. If this became public you'd be screwed.
That's a huge part of the problem. If you condone law breaking in your life, you lose the moral authority to enforce those laws when it comes to others.
I don't think I could handle being with someone who smoked if I were in your shoes. Their family, should they continue to break the law, would have to hide it from me as well or I would feel obligated to arrest them.
That said, it doesn't sound like you're being a baby. If you want to be a police officer and you're hanging out with law breakers without doing anything about it, it reflects quite badly on you. If you knowingly allowed it in your car, you are asking for big trouble. If this became public you'd be screwed.
Originally posted by: UDT89
Originally posted by: Looney
Yes you're being unreasonable. Obviously it's part of who she is, and she's already compromised for you. If you aren't even willing to meet her halfway, then it obviously won't work... and since you're upset even over the little she's doing, i doubt you'll ever get over it.
so i should be ok with coming home one day and saying "hey honey, i arrested two guys for having marijuana on them"
......while my g/f just smoked the hour before?
That's a huge part of the problem. If you condone law breaking in your life, you lose the moral authority to enforce those laws when it comes to others.
I don't think I could handle being with someone who smoked if I were in your shoes. Their family, should they continue to break the law, would have to hide it from me as well or I would feel obligated to arrest them.