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Originally posted by: Frostwake
Originally posted by: Vinny N
Originally posted by: Frostwake
Why do parents act like they know what we care about?
Because they do know what we care about and they're terrified of what crazy things we will do for what we care about. I know it's hard to believe sometimes, and parents are capable of messing up, but they really don't want to hurt their children in any way.
Frostwake, since you only joined in January, I have to ask: Have you read much of this forum? Did you make this thread looking for support? Because I'm afraid for these sorts of threads (and pretty much any YAGT, even plainer ones), this forum has mostly harsh comments/advice and empathy can be a rarity.
Thanks for sharing, altough i have no ideia what having children is like, i understand that parents must be terrified when these things come up, but my case isnt a "life or death" thing either, its just... they can make it happen, and if they dont then they do start risking alot more than they should, and nobodys happy in the end
I know ATOT is the worse place for support threads, actually just about every thread here is turned into a pathetic flame fest from what ive seen, ill go look somewhere else where people that have gone through the same and succeded might actually cheer me up and tell me what it was like
You don't want to know the truth, you just want to be told what you want to hear.
You will look back on this in a few years and think "How could I have been so freaking stupid". We've all been there before and so will you.