Originally posted by: Frostwake
i dont believe you would be happy if you truly loved someone and had her go away from you, no matter how happy she would be.. its like some guy coming into your wifes life and making her happier then you ever did and since you "love " her and shes happy, you're happy as well?
Of course not. It would rip your soul right out of your body, and you'd feel some of the deepest anguish that a human being CAN feel. You'd be ripped in two by the overwhelming sense of sorrow that she left, and you'll wish from the bottom of your heart that she was still with you...but at the same time you'll be glad that she's happy. You'll tell yourself time and again that it's for the best, but it won't make the pain go away. The key is that if you truly love her, you'll do whatever it takes to make her happy, including letting her go...but if she truly loves you, she'll feel the same way. So, you'll be inseparable.
You take a huge risk when you fall in love...you're putting your heart in her hands, and she can VERY easily hurt you badly with a careless word or action. The same applies for her, if she's in love with you. Which is why love is so amazing, and why it is so incredibly difficult, and at times painful. That's also why unreciprocated love is so tragic.
However, trust us on this. What's best for her is to get an education and build a future. If you love her, you'll support her parents on this one. Yes, it's painful, of course it is. But if you go along with your current plans, you're both going to end up working your fingers to the bone in sh!tty jobs, while living in a run-down POS house, and if you're not careful you'll have kids to support as well. Would you want someone you loved to be living that way?