Classy, please don't say I try to come off sounding intelligent. It will upset Corn who will recognize the implications.
My issue is you, trying to help you with your sad and glaringly paradoxical inability to see in yourself the an example of the very thing that has done so much harm and especially to black people here in America. Melanophobia and homophobia are the same thing. The reason you can't see it is because you don't like the one and therefore can't admit to the other. Naturally, therefore, your rationalization process kicks in to explain to yourself that your bias is of an approved, moral issue, kind. Right! Plento of people do the same thing with white supremicy. It's just natural and right, even Biblically approved. No bigot says to himself, I'm really an irrational fool but prowd of my bigotry. He always is morally superior. It's the moral superiority, the reflecive response to an inner feeling of worthlessness, that produces the arrogance to assume that superiority. You can easily see all this, classy, if I were directing it at a rwhite racist, but you cannot see it about yourself. Until you want to, you probably won't. It takes some horsepower to face many things about ourselves. Hope you get there some day. To climb, you don't have to step on someone elses head. The fact you can't let go of your attitude makes your world a smaller place.