CT here. Moved here in HS with family. Too poor to move out now :awe:
Pros:
No real natural disasters, just a few bad snowstorms a year where you stay home for a day
Quick access to Boston & NYC, without actually having to live there
Lots of historical & art history stuff, if you're into that
Maine & Canada are only half a day's drive for quick vacation trips
Tons of cool B&B's in the NE area for overnight & weekend stays
Beautiful fall foilage & lots of cool pick-your-own farms with delicious pies & fruit
4 full seasons, so you can have a nice summer & then go sledding in the winter
Cons:
No good fast-food restaurants (they just barely built our first Chik-fil-a)
Crazy expensive to live here
Tax on everything up the wazoo: food, cars, housing, etc. (even leased cars!)
Crummy roads full of potholes (despite high taxes)
People are generally pretty cold here (closed-off), not nearly as open as people in the south
Not really a super ton of things to do if you're younger
Beaches are terrible. Bathwater with no waves.
Both parents generally have to work to sustain a good income to live here comfortably
Ticks & lyme disease
People automatically think you're rich & liberal if you live in Connecticut. Really, it's just like anywhere else, just with a higher percentage of older rich people. Plus, the flip side of having really rich areas is having really poor areas nearby with lots of crime & apathetic attitudes. Just ask any ATOT'er who lives in New Haven how much fun it is to walk around at night
If I was making bank & only had to work 40 hours a week, it'd be an awesome place to live since you'd have the free time to enjoy all of the fun (and expensive) stuff in the area. One thing I do really like is the lack of natural disasters. We avoid the bulk of the earthquakes, tornados, and hurricanes (minus the oddball visits of each over the last few years), the only real natural disaster is how stupid expensive it is to live here. I like having seasons, not having alligators in the ponds (people actually swim in lakes here, it's crazy!), being within driving distances to lots of different states that all have their own unique offerings, etc.