Seems hes a class mate she barely knows. He wants to jump her bones.
Going to lunch with a co-worker of the opposite sex is a bit different. It typically means you are already friends. You got to know them on the job and established a friendship.
Asking the opposite sex you don't know well to lunch and bringing them coffee is not a typical I want to be friends maneuver.
This "triggering" thing. It's what we used to call "annoying", yes?
It's what I call RAPE.
To trigger someone FORCES them to feel something.
When a MAN FORCES a WOMAN that is called RAPE.
Because men RAPE.
Trigger Warning.
RAPE.
I'm conflicted on this. On the one hand I'm thinking about how the generation before me wouldn't bat an eye at going out to dinner if they are married in a professional setting, like the OP is saying.
The OP is the retarded one. The fact he actually created this thread then complains like a woman like usual here about other women, is hilarious.
The guy brought the woman a coffee last week and this week is asking her out to lunch. Yes, he's interested in her.
In my professional opinion, OP should get off FB.
That'll be $100 please.
Unexpected twist: OP is the creepy married dude stalking her on her FB.
Coworker relationships are different because it's usually covered by workplace sexual harassment with your job potentially on the line -- it's definitely not guaranteed protection and has its own exploitation problems. And if you're in the same company, you're expected to be "friends" and to be "professional" for "team building" purposes.
"Hey, can I take you out to lunch tommorow?"
Some time later I get an email
"Umm, Futurefields, we're gonna need to see you in HR office...."
sometimes I think even if a girl is just in a bad mood, she can get a guy in a lot of trouble by making claims
I've always wondered about this. Can simply asking a coworker to lunch get somebody in trouble for sexual harrasment?
"Hey, can I take you out to lunch tommorow?"
Some time later I get an email
"Umm, Futurefields, we're gonna need to see you in HR office...."
sometimes I think even if a girl is just in a bad mood, she can get a guy in a lot of trouble by making claims
He should also lawyer up and hit the gym, according to Reddit. I want a cut of that $100.
Not all of them. My boss, who retired last year and was in his upper 50's, had a standing rule of no lunch or closed door sessions with just a woman, with the exception of his direct report who was a woman and had known for years. He did not want to send out a message and felt that it was disrespectful to his wife and marriage. I will add he was a Christian and one of the most devoted family-man I've ever known, and just an all-around great guy. I respected the guy enough that I attended, on his invite, a luncheon he spoke at for a local Christian businessman's organization, and I'm not even religious! lol (and no, I felt no pressure to attend). Nothing weird about him, just his belief.
Unexpected twist: OP is the creepy married dude stalking her on her FB.
you know those guys are the biggest freaks of them all...
Unexpected twist: OP is the creepy married dude stalking her on her FB.
I agree with FB girl.
Buying coffee for "random" coworker, out of the blue, is suspicious...regardless of sex.
Throw opposite sex in there and it is very suspicious.
Unless they are really good work friends, the coffee thing is weird.
Follow that up with lunch request for just the two of them is doubly weird.
If that makes me socially awkward... so be it. But at least I won't be seen as a creep.