Referring to the books
Why Men Are the Way They Are and
The Myth of Male Power by Warren Farrell:
http://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Are-Wa.../dp/042511094X
http://www.amazon.com/Myth-Male-Powe.../dp/0425181448
Those negative reviews you quoted were probably from angry Marxist gender-feminists who disagree that men are equally oppressed by gender roles and conditioned by society to behave in certain ways as opposed to being inherently irrational or destructive. Surely there must be a great many positive reviews for both books, too.
Also, you might find it interesting to note that Farrell was a male feminist before he became a men's movement writer. He was even a member of the NOW board for a couple years. During his time as a male feminist he witnessed how poorly men were doing and wanted to investigate why.
Women should definitely read those two books for a different perspective on male-female dynamics that "rings true for men". It would really help women understand men better and have better relationships. Single women might learn a lot about how to better meet good men.
Of course, if you want to continue believing men=bad women=good then go right ahead. If you want to be ignorant and continue believing that males have all of the power in society and that they aren't influenced by sex roles, culture, and upbringing, but are merely inferior to women, go right ahead.