OMG... I agree with classy. :Q
This all has to do with respect. It's not the fact that she has a friend on the `Net (we all do), and not the fact that she's aparently not sharing her problems with her husband (though he should soley be the one she talks to about this unless all other avenues have been explored), it's all about her spewing her deepest sentiments about her spouse to a person she really doesn't even know. Sure, my marriage has some rough spots sometimes (whose doesn't?), but I always work things out with her privately and never discuss issues like this with strangers.
Let's face it, this guy that frogger's wife met on the `Net is just trying to weasel his way into a booty call and is trying his best to make her frustrated with her marriage. This isn't the first time something like this has happened and it sure won't be the last.
Ok, now I want to point out something else... frogger shouldn't have stepped in here and done this either. But I guess the difference is that he didn't give us lots of gory details, just a quick summery.
Anyway, if this happened to me I would bring it up with my wife, talk things through, and ask her to stop discussing our private life online and discontinue her relationship with this guy she met. If she didn't stop, I'd ask her to go to counseling with me. If she refused that, then I'd ask her to pack her stuff and we'd see how a seperation would work out for a while. I don't believe that's unreasonable, I just know how much I love my wife and how badly something like this would hurt me... even though some would only consider a situation like this "virtual betrayal".
This all has to do with respect. It's not the fact that she has a friend on the `Net (we all do), and not the fact that she's aparently not sharing her problems with her husband (though he should soley be the one she talks to about this unless all other avenues have been explored), it's all about her spewing her deepest sentiments about her spouse to a person she really doesn't even know. Sure, my marriage has some rough spots sometimes (whose doesn't?), but I always work things out with her privately and never discuss issues like this with strangers.
Let's face it, this guy that frogger's wife met on the `Net is just trying to weasel his way into a booty call and is trying his best to make her frustrated with her marriage. This isn't the first time something like this has happened and it sure won't be the last.
Ok, now I want to point out something else... frogger shouldn't have stepped in here and done this either. But I guess the difference is that he didn't give us lots of gory details, just a quick summery.
Anyway, if this happened to me I would bring it up with my wife, talk things through, and ask her to stop discussing our private life online and discontinue her relationship with this guy she met. If she didn't stop, I'd ask her to go to counseling with me. If she refused that, then I'd ask her to pack her stuff and we'd see how a seperation would work out for a while. I don't believe that's unreasonable, I just know how much I love my wife and how badly something like this would hurt me... even though some would only consider a situation like this "virtual betrayal".