Wife is losing the checkbook tonight...

[DurocShark]

I knew we were hurting financially (supporting family of 4 on one salary is hard), but this I was unaware of:

Date Posted Description Amount
12/1/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/29/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/29/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/29/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/29/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/28/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/28/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/28/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/25/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/23/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/22/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/22/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/22/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/18/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/17/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/16/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/15/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/15/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/15/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/15/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/14/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/14/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/10/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/10/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/10/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/9/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/9/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/9/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/9/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/9/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/3/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/3/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/2/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/2/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/2/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/2/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
11/1/2005 *OVERDRAFT CHARGE -29
11/1/2005 *NON SUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGE -29
TOTAL -1102


Apparently she's been writing checks left and right for who knows what. Heck, if she was awake I'd be dealing with this now. As it is I'm confiscating her checkbook. Grrr...

Merry Fscking Christmas

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Update
She woke up around 2am. I was still up. I showed her my printout of the account, her response was to start blaming me.

They were all checks. Some of the places she bounced with were resubmitting the checks, so it's not as many actual checks as it appears. However, her response was that I don't give her enough money. Which is strange since I have direct deposit to the shared account.

Anyway, I took over paying bills and confiscated the checkbook. After a long fight we both mellowed and are going to relax and see what happens.

As for online account management, yes, I have that setup. I just wasn't watching it closely since she has always done our finances. Last night was the first time I checked. And that was because I wanted to know why there wasn't enough $$ in the bank to pay the rent.

I make $60k a year. That should be enough to pay our bills.

Unfortunately, because of the hole she's dug by writing checks left and right on money that we didn't have, it looks like this is gonna be a really crappy Christmas. I feel for the kids.

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[ChaoZ]

Ouch

 

[KLin]

Holy....Fscking....******....:shocked:

 

[her209]

OMG PWNED!!!

 

[Xyo II]

 

[Mo0o]

yeeeesh

that looks more like check card usage then checkbook

 

[SynthDude2001]

:Q

 

[paulney]

Geez. I didn't realize people still use checkbooks for shopping.

 

[Ronstang]

Time to make it a family of three.

 

[DurocShark]

Originally posted by: paulney
Geez. I didn't realize people still use checkbooks for shopping.

Are you kidding? Here in CO you can buy gas or dinner in a restaurant with a check still! :shocked:

 

[CKent]

Prostitutes are much cheaper than wives. In many cases, they're leaner, cleaner and less promiscuous as well.

 

[BriGy86]

are those the charges on the right? 29 bucks each?

DAMN!

 

[Leros]

A few days ago, my mom gave me a blank check to buy $100ish of clothes. Afterwards, I recorded it in her checkbook and noticed the balance had not been addded in 4 pages. Turns out she has -$350, who knows how much with the NSF fees.

 

[Leros]

Originally posted by: BriGy86
are those the charges on the right? 29 bucks each?

DAMN!

Those $29 are the penatly charges for using the overdraft. Every check they write over the balance of their checkbook has the same charge, whether the check was for $2.00 or $50,000.

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: JToxic
A few days ago, my mom gave me a blank check to buy $100ish of clothes. Afterwards, I recorded it in her checkbook and noticed the balance had not been addded in 4 pages. Turns out she has -$350, who knows how much with the NSF fees.

Do women think money just magically appear in the checking account every two weeks?

 

[Chaotic42]

No offense, and maybe I sound like an ass, but that would seriously make me consider a divorce. I cannot believe that anyone could be so irresponsible and stupid with their money.

 

[SilentZero]

HOLY CRAP! If my wife ever did that I would cut her off from money completely!

 

[BriGy86]

Originally posted by: JToxic

Originally posted by: BriGy86
are those the charges on the right? 29 bucks each?

DAMN!

Those $29 are the penatly charges for using the overdraft. Every check they write over the balance of their checkbook has the same charge, whether the check was for $2.00 or $50,000.

thats what i ment

i would be furious

 

[Powermoloch]

Originally posted by: KLin
Holy....Fscking....******....:shocked:

 

[BD231]

Wow . . . , sorry man!

Much luck to you in your situation.

 

[BriGy86]

Originally posted by: Chaotic42
No offense, and maybe I sound like an ass, but that would seriously make me consider a divorce. I cannot believe that anyone could be so irresponsible and stupid with their money.

i agree, if you marry some one you should at least expect them to be smart and/or responsible, im 19 and i knew damn well not to make those mistakes even when i was 15

 

[Leros]

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: JToxic
A few days ago, my mom gave me a blank check to buy $100ish of clothes. Afterwards, I recorded it in her checkbook and noticed the balance had not been addded in 4 pages. Turns out she has -$350, who knows how much with the NSF fees.

Do women think money just magically appear in the checking account every two weeks?

... I think the answer might be yes. *shudders*

 

[Ronstang]

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: JToxic
A few days ago, my mom gave me a blank check to buy $100ish of clothes. Afterwards, I recorded it in her checkbook and noticed the balance had not been addded in 4 pages. Turns out she has -$350, who knows how much with the NSF fees.

Do women think money just magically appear in the checking account every two weeks?

When you ask women how a car works I have heard replies like "you put gas in the back, you turn the key, and when you push on the gas pedal magic happens and you move", so in regards to your question I would definitely have to say that some do.

 

[Xyo II]

Originally posted by: Ronstang
Time to make it a family of three.

:Q

 

[Rage187]

She gambling?


thats usually a sign, lots of checks real quick.