Wow, what a bunch of immature responses here. It's always easy for someone to stand back and judge another, especially on a forum.
To DurocShark;
My brother in law started doing similar things to my sister's account a few years ago. Not only do you have big fees, but I'd be concerned about the amounts and the standings of the checks that were written. Not trying to alarm you, but you could have bigger problems than just NSF bank fees. There might be a bunch of checks out there, to be collected, which were cashed or merchandise bought.
Looks like a whole month worth of trouble. In my brother in law's case, it turned out he deposited some money in some online casinos, using a visa debit card. He lost, and deposited some more, lost that, then got in too deep. He went crazy depositing, trying to get back ahead. In the end, he'd lost about $5000 from their checking account and also caused about $3000 worth checks that were written to pay bills to bounce. It ended up costing them dearly. He was sick and had a gambling addiction, which he's gotten some help for since then.
You need to get her to level with you. She might have a problem that she needs help with. Once an addiction takes over, the addicted person no longer has control. The addiction controls the person. I'm not trying to assume too much here, but it sure looks like something I've seen before. If you love her, you must also stand by to help if she's got a sickness.
2 years ago they built a casino within minutes of where we live. I know some people who were stable in their financial lives up until then. Now they have been reduced to financial nothingness and a couple have lost their homes.
Good luck man. I'd be looking at the computer real hard, if I were you, to try and see what goes on there. Sorry to hear about this.