Wife is pregnant...

[Apple Of Sodom]

Just found out my wife is pregnant. We have two kids that are soon to be 9 and 6... we are both 31. Didn't really plan on this but overall it isn't a bad thing...could be worse, right? I was hoping to retire in 12 years when my kiddos graduated high school...seems as though I will have to push that back a little.

Anyone else have surprise kids late in their marriage?

 

[Lithium381]

is it yours?

 

[amish]

what's this retirement by 43 plan?

 

[Apple Of Sodom]

is it yours?

I already asked her that. Apparently she is pretty sure it is.
Also, as a note, when your wife is having a breakdown about being pregnant, not a good time to ask that question...

 

[sjwaste]

31? Holy shit, man. I'm 30 and we're expecting our first in June.

 

[tynopik]

is it yours?

 

[Apple Of Sodom]

what's this retirement by 43 plan?

It's called being fucking awesome.

We own three businesses. I meant from my full time job.

 

[amish]

31? Holy shit, man. I'm 30 and we're expecting our first in June.

congrats! 31 and expecting 2nd in October. best accident i'll ever have.

 

[Apple Of Sodom]

31? Holy shit, man. I'm 30 and we're expecting our first in June.

Cool. I love my kids and cannot imagine life without them. A new addition will be fine...but we have idyllic lives and change is a little hard (even if it is for the better.)

 

[Lithium381]

Ours was a surprise, my wife was 27 at the time. . . .then again we never really took care to prevent it, so i guess it wasn't a suprise, just not planned

 

[tynopik]

I already asked her that. Apparently she is pretty sure it is.

well of course it's hers . . .

Also, as a note, when your wife is having a breakdown about being pregnant, not a good time to ask that question...

why would you ask her? just quietly get a dna test. if it confirms, no need to ever bring it up

 

[sdifox]

Conglats, many people want to have kids but can't

 

[amish]

It's called being fucking awesome.

We own three businesses. I meant from my full time job.

ha, ok. not really retired. what type of business?

 

[Apple Of Sodom]

ha, ok. not really retired. what type of business?

Photo studio, IT consulting and sales, bakery franchise (just opening it now.)

 

[DesiPower]

well... congrats... I guess, our second was kinda unplanned... I got snipped right after that

 

[Bignate603]

31 isn't really "later in life". My father and stepmother (he's 55, she's 40) have a set of twins that are about a year old.

 

[lothar]

Just found out my wife is pregnant. We have two kids that are soon to be 9 and 6... we are both 31. Didn't really plan on this but overall it isn't a bad thing...could be worse, right? I was hoping to retire in 12 years when my kiddos graduated high school...seems as though I will have to push that back a little.

Anyone else have surprise kids late in their marriage?

How exactly was this kid a surprise?
Condom broke? Antibiotics used during birth control? You sure it's your kid?

 

[Sonikku]

Hey, it happens. Thankfully, you have an option.

 

[wheels]

Another soon to be human being on this planet. Good job

 

[busydude]

31 and late in marriage? D:

I don't even know where I am going to end up when I am 31.

 

[shadow9d9]

Don't want it? Have an abortion.

 

[Svnla]

31 and 3rd kid?

<<--- is feeling old and need to kick it to overdrive to get a wife and get a kid or two but after that, no more.

 

[RaistlinZ]

Another soon to be human being on this planet. Good job

We can eliminate you to make room if you like. :biggrin:

 

[wty]

...My father and stepmother (he's 55, she's 40) have a set of twins that are about a year old.

That's awesome.

 

[alkemyst]

hope she wasn't in Denver last month.