Very serious.
All too often this is true. If you are interested in what the Bible actually says on this matter, a good source of info is the The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood.
I don't know if you are providing that advice jokingly or serious...but from a serious standpoint I will comment.
All these guys that say the bible gives them authority over their wives always never consider that they are not holding up the end of the bargain the bible instructs them to be.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Boo fvcking hoo. There's never an excuse for this kind of behavior. You can witness the reactions to that asshole Alkemyst and see the fairly evenhanded comments by most of the men here.
My dad's been married 4 times. He's been with his current wife (my stepmother) for about 16 years now. He has a habit of cheating on his wives for about a year or two before getting a divorce. He is my father, and I love him for that, but I don't take sh!t from him on moral issues and he doesn't try to press me on them anymore, because he knows he's a slimeball, and he knows that I know.
What happened to the idea of responsibility? Or honesty? Hey, guess what, your husband's "boring in bed"... grow up a little and either broach the topic and work through it or get a divorce. Have the guts to honor your significant other, even if that's the minimum that you do.
I need a smoke.
Nate
asshole? heh...maybe that is true, however you are just a child. Have you even lived with a woman that wasn't a blood relative?
I have lived with 6 women, I think I know a bit about the ups and downs of relationships. I was married, I divorced, I had another financee...and now I am married again. There have been fights, battles, infidelities, there has been passion, caring and kindness as well. Life is a rollercoaster sometimes...many just chose to stay home and not ride.
You don't know what goes on in your parent's bedroom no matter how close you are to your parents and it's fools that think they do. Many times people's own spouses have no idea of a decade long infidelity....do you really think between X-Box and power rangers you have any idea the major reasons your father really cheated. Nice you think he is a slimeball, sort of make the asshole you called me a complement.
I will tell you what, it's not always about the sex. The sex happening is what happens when two adults like each other...no a stork did not drop you on a doorstep. When someone is not happy at home they will talk to others sometimes....sometimes that leads to a closeness not felt in a very long time and yes, people forget they are married and end up in bed with someone that actually listened to them for more than 5 minutes before yelling or telling them they are stupid/childish to think in such a way. However, the relationship was already doomed before that lapse of judgement took place. Also usually the person is not very happy with themselves about it.
People who are clueless think it's all about "my wife doesn't do this and my husband doesn't do that in bed....." that's the minor issues usually, the ones focused on at the end of a day....the ones you remember. For all you know you may be the reason your father cheats, he obviously knows you hate it, yet still does it in front of you. No matter how sexually aggressive two people are there are going to be times when one says 'no'. Another thing the non-married like to talk about is how the man needs to wear the pants and demand sex happen...his wife is his to take when he wants....good luck with that one and get in touch with a good domestic abuse defence attorney if she doesn't cut it off one night.
Like I stated before, there are long drawn out books that can be written on why an affair happens, each chapter could be a reason. There could also be another book written on why or why not someone tells their other about it. There can be another long and drawn out book on dealing with, ignoring, or not dealing with the infidelity. This is not really a simple subject.
On top of that most posters here have not been in many serious relationships, if any relationships, yet feel they understand what it's all about.
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
There should be a book written on how to drag people down to your level and beat them with experience. Oh wait, it just happened!
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
There should be a book written on how to drag people down to your level and beat them with experience. Oh wait, it just happened!
Man you are like a little yappy puppy always at my heels. Do you ever have anything to add to a discussion?
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Once a person though becomes emotionally damaged rational thought becomes damaged as well.
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Scroll up for recap of uber pwnage of your posts.
Don't take this as a personal insult but an analysis of the information you have given us: You don't have a fvcking clue about how to run a relationship. You were married once and that ended in divorce, and even then you bragged about how both of you were fvcking everything in sight and then each other. You have three (or is four?) broken engagements. You've just recently married again, now all of sudden you're Dr. Phil? No offense, but you haven't had a successful marraige yet, we'll see how this one goes. Yet I digress.
It was quite obvious that tkdkid and the cheater were never going to work out. Shame on the people who were telling him to try and *patch it up*. Once she gets the Knick Knack Paddy Wack (give the dog a bone), she'll never come back.
Thanks for the crown, I will use it wisely. Also, a man who can live up to his own defeats is admirable... Hopefully I won't be headed down the same path of wicked women. In response to your questions, been with 16 women, going to be engaged in a year or so. Should be an enjoyable journey doing the whole house and kids thing.Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Scroll up for recap of uber pwnage of your posts.
How do you own someone for something they are disclosing? However think what you want puppy.
Don't take this as a personal insult but an analysis of the information you have given us: You don't have a fvcking clue about how to run a relationship. You were married once and that ended in divorce, and even then you bragged about how both of you were fvcking everything in sight and then each other. You have three (or is four?) broken engagements. You've just recently married again, now all of sudden you're Dr. Phil? No offense, but you haven't had a successful marraige yet, we'll see how this one goes. Yet I digress.
Hmmm how can you base my knowledge of running a relationship on the outcome caused by the other party? If anything I got out and didn't stay a victim.
As far as engagements go...there has to be one for each marriage...so two is a given. There was one more. Having a successful marriage and knowing what one takes are two different things....on the same corelation...have you EVER been married? If not then why are you yapping....by your own rules you are an invalid source albeit a hypocritical one at that.....My first marriage lasted about 5 years....that's pretty good now a days...an pretty good for a marriage of 18 and 22. It failed....oh well, at least I am interacting socially with my life.
It was quite obvious that tkdkid and the cheater were never going to work out. Shame on the people who were telling him to try and *patch it up*. Once she gets the Knick Knack Paddy Wack (give the dog a bone), she'll never come back.
I pass my crown on to you oh wisened one....wear your Dr. Phil crown with pride, you've earned it. Now just how many women have you been with to obtain this expert knowledge? Your workout buddy doesn't count, even if he wears a wig.
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